The long-awaited child is born! We waited, prayed, gave birth, thank God! And suddenly our problems began: How to educate? What to feed? What to submit? Children don’t know how to tell their mother, What do they want: either to eat or to sleep? Screams are heard, crying throughout the apartment - What do you really want, baby? We went to God with prayer again, We ask you to help us raise our children: “What should we do? We don’t know exactly how to fully raise a daughter? What does she need? How can we understand it? How can we stop all the screams and torment? How can we stand it and not scream, If they don’t let us sleep all night? How can we not be nervous if we again have no time to eat or rest? Our baby gives us worries, a lot of trouble, a lot of work. Then wash, then feed, then play and put to bed. We fall without strength again, We have no time to take care of ourselves, We put aside all our work, We run, we spin, we sleep a little.” God answered us: “I gave you a soul so that you could lead it, protect it, teach it, love it, play with it, go to visit. But the main thing that is needed from you: Be an example for her right now. You can teach her a lot - How to speak, how to walk, try everything. You only need to understand one thing: How can a baby tell you, What does he want, because you need to know, Feels what he, determine, He doesn’t know his body, Doesn’t understand what’s inside him. This is a science - to control the body, You need to try to be able to move, eat and sleep correctly, run faster, understand pain. Well, it’s important to distinguish between emotions, because they help you understand, what’s going wrong now, you want to cry, hit, scream. You react for a reason, After all, without emotions there is no way to understand that someone else is offending you or that danger is leading you along. You must teach your child how to live in this world. You can show him a lot and teach him to go his own way. You won’t live your life for him, But you will protect him from danger, And distinguish goodness from evil, And defend yourself from the enemy. How to be healthy and how to win. How to love and inspire. How to live in a family, make friends, respect, How to be able to understand other people. It was not in vain that I entrusted my soul to you, You are now one family, You can help her learn, How to live in this world, how to achieve everything. Well, she will help you learn better How to sometimes forget about yourself, Think about your neighbor, care again, Be able to understand and love another, Sacrifice a lot, be an elder, Be real, forget about quarrels, After all, it is happiness to become a parent, And in another person recognize yourself!”© Anastasia Timoschenkohttp://worldpsy.ru/dolgojdannyi-rebenok/