It is generally accepted that men are more likely to leave women. However, not all so simple. Men, too, often find themselves rejected, deceived and humiliated. Of course, the false belief that “a man doesn’t cry” forces many representatives of the stronger sex to look for a way out in a way that is not at all environmentally friendly. Suppressing their emotions, men often try to “forget themselves” with the help of alcohol, going into promiscuity, while resentment lurks deep in the soul and leads a person along a distorted path for many years. What to do if a girl leaves you? Ask yourself: Did you give reasons to be jealous? Did you cheat on your girl? Did you neglect her opinion? Did you behave aggressively towards her? Did you humiliate, insult her, devalue her? If even some of the answers are affirmative, then you should work with a specialist and start changing your life scenario in an environmentally friendly way. If the answers are negative, then I will explain some of the nuances and based on From this, you can also contact a psychologist for clarification. Let's assume the situation. You are so in love with a girl that you are afraid of losing her. You are ready to fulfill her every request, guess all her desires and literally dissolve in her. But the girl behaves like the Snow Queen, is arrogant, ironic towards you, often devalues ​​you, says that Your friends already have the coolest phone models, mink coats and other luxury items. And you try your best to impress her, but, alas, she just leaves, leaving you no hope of restoring the relationship. Of course, it hurts, it hurts you very much. After all, you are so in love, or rather, dependent on her. So, in order. I'm sorry, but the bitter truth is better than a sweet lie.1. The girl doesn't love you. Actually, she does not love anyone and, perhaps, even herself. She does not know deep feelings, responsibility, human kindness. Perhaps there was also drama in her life, so her heart froze. Of course, I have no right to tell you what actions you should take, but it is important to understand whether she is ready to work through her traumas? If you recommend that she see a psychologist or offer to attend classes together, then there may be strong resistance on her part. And this will only indicate that the girl is not going to change and change something in your relationship. In this case, the most reasonable thing will be leaving a relationship with self-esteem and maintaining adequate self-esteem. If they despise me, devalue me, suck out my energy, then why do I need this relationship? 2. The girl is infantile and has no inner core. Very often, spoiled girls behave like princesses. Remember the fairy tale “12 Months”, where the little tyrant wanted to take a person’s life just because the word “execute” has fewer letters than the word “pardon”! Remember? Now compare it with your sweetheart. Similar? Such girls need a magic kick to grow, develop and rethink their lives, behavior and relationships.3. At best, if a girl rejects you, she explains the reason: “Sorry, but I can’t develop a relationship with you.” Why is that? There can be many answers: from differences in character to sexual incompatibility. For example, you don’t like cats, but she can’t live without her pets. Of course, if a girl says that she doesn’t have a crush on you, this doesn’t mean that the problem is with you. This only means that she is uncomfortable and uncomfortable with you. These are purely her subjective feelings. Is it worth returning her in this case? I am always for dialogue on equal terms. And I categorically don’t like it when decisions are made for me. I believe that in a relationship, responsibility lies between two people and therefore it is necessary to end the relationship with dignity, with a feeling of gratitude to each other. I am sure that with an adequate and reasonable girl there is always an opportunity to discuss issues and understand what exactly is the problem. A very important warning! Dear Man! Perhaps you intend to return the girl only from the hurt