From the author: What language, words can you shout to women suffering violence, moral, physical sadism, bullying and abuse from their spouses. Don’t expect broken ribs and destinies, it won’t change , with the exception of going through several years of psychocorrection. If you were dropped once, wait... Well, what an absurdity, well, a man dropped you while dancing, think about it, it’s no big deal, you got up, dusted yourself off and went. Maybe they even forgot, and it won’t happen again happened, it's wonderful! If you were dropped once, wait, they drop you twice..... three times, four times. And then the floor and not only it will fly to your face, and will kiss you on the shoulder, then on the chest, leaving you purple kisses. Well, it was an accident, well, I drank, got involved with you, lost my balance, and bam, you were both on the floor, got up, shook yourself off and walked away. And in the body there is pain, resentment, shame. You are offended, you tell him, and in response, it’s your own fault, if you had trusted, it would have been better. If you hadn’t resisted, everything would have worked out, everything would have worked out, you wouldn’t have gotten hurt. Does this remind you of anything? These are the words of a rapist, a robber who attacks you in the dark, in a gateway. Which perceives you as a mechanism, the ON button. Off button I want courage, drive, relax and give it to me. You are a doll, as I want, I twirl as I want, and I explore your survival. You are my doll, and since I am a boy who plays at adulthood, but not with dances , and cats, girls, women, then I am Frankenstein, conducting an intoxicating and fascinating experiment in a reality show family. Over myself, because my mother made me such a freak, and over you, because you are also a mutilated doll, mine, real, with feelings and pain. And it’s so sweet to have, to have a living doll. But I’m a man, I strong, so mother nature gave me the right to show strength, dexterity, and ingenuity. And you are a woman, your job is humility, acceptance, patience, relaxation. Relax and live, trust me. So, if you have been dropped several times already, a man’s hand accidentally fell on you in alcohol, and they tell you it’s your fault, collect your belongings, and run from Frankenstein. Remember, such a “GENIUS” creator has not only his hands from the wrong place, but everything from the wrong place, including his brains and feelings. Otherwise, after ten years of accidental falls, not only the soul, but also the body, including children, will be disfigured. Such a person has no care for you and will not, he will use you like a piece of equipment, a doll, break you and throw you away, you will go to category of a bad, outdated toy. And the more you want to become the best for him, the more you will be dropped, abandoned, humiliated. You yourself are asking for such a disfigured “love”. The more you earn love, the more this monster will relax about you and your body. The sublime phrase - until ''death'' do you part - can become a quick prophecy. Someone will accidentally free someone from family ties. Do not confuse tolerance and patience, the humility of realizing that your spouse is a freak and you are unable to change him, and not the humility to bear the cross of violence and destruction of you. Come, get help, support, knowledge and understanding, and walk or even run away from the little ones Frankenstein geniuses. Go through therapy and meet normal healthy men, believe me, there are many of them. Give yourself the right and chances for a normal, happy life, give your children this right. I really wish this for you, believe me, you are Free!