Recently, a large number of articles, books, and trainings on the topic “How to become a Real Woman” began to appear. This is probably wonderful. But I wonder, what does it mean to be a Real Woman in the modern world? How have ideas about women's roles changed? If they have changed...Yes, the modern woman has significantly more rights, freedoms and opportunities. But does this make her happier? And how does she use them to be happy and at the same time remain a Real Woman? There is an opinion that a Real Woman is one who knows how to be a mistress for her man in the house, in bed - a lover, in communication - a friend, and in achieving goals - muse. And almost every sane man unconsciously strives to find all this in one woman - a passionate lover, a wonderful housewife and mother for her children, and an inspiration for whom one wants to overcome difficulties and reach the top! This is exactly the kind of woman who knows how to combine everything these qualities are able to help her man conquer the world, which he will be ready to lay at her feet. Modern women are well aware of this! There is a huge amount of information devoted to this topic. So why do our beautiful women still suffer from loneliness? And why do modern men increasingly complain that “nowadays, women are less and less likely to offer their hand with their palm down...” Unfortunately, it often happens that when getting married, many women focus on becoming a good housewife and a wonderful mother . They are, as they say, “headlong” in taking care of the house, raising children, and at the same time raising their husband. They do everything from the heart and with love. And at the same time, they have less and less strength and energy left for their own interests, and especially for intimate relationships. The energy gradually transforms from love to friendship, or even evaporates completely. Somehow, imperceptibly for herself, a woman slowly turns into a “mommy”, receiving less and less attention as a woman, putting forward more and more claims against her husband, sincerely not understanding why he doesn’t want her... Or vice versa, a woman or girl really likes to be independent, achieve everything independently, be free to make decisions. She is so carried away by this role that she does not understand at all why the men who appear in her life disappear so quickly. Why don’t they have the desire to start a family and take care of it... The answer is simple. In order to achieve harmony in your own life, to be able to create and maintain relationships, to have success socially, you need to be different. You need to be able to change, using certain qualities that are appropriate at a given moment in time. And no matter how difficult it may seem, almost any woman or girl is able to achieve this. After all, every woman is born with enormous inner strength and wisdom aimed at creation! She comes into this world with the ability to understand and accept, with the ability to be flexible and open. With a natural ability to transform and fill the world with love. In order to get true pleasure from life, from relationships with a man, from social fulfillment, you need to go back far, far back, to the origins of your feminine nature. By listening to her own needs, having known herself, a woman easily understands what is truly important to herself, what she can give to others. After all, it is impossible to give another happiness, love, understanding, care, being unhappy in the soul, not understanding oneself, not caring about your body... I suggest you, dear girls and women, to do the following exercise: take a piece of paper, a pen and try to honestly answer the following questions: 1. What am I? - write sincerely in a column about all your qualities, character traits, and skills. To be honest, write everything you have, both positive and negative.2. Study this list carefully - which qualities predominate - positive or negative? What qualities are not enough and need to be developed? We need a real portrait, that’s where it all begins. To change something