When a person tries to prove something, at that moment he seems to declare: “I will spend my time and energy and make it satisfy ME.” Remember yourself at the moment of proving your rightness/point of view. Strong emotions, right? And if we fail to be right, then, oh, how angry we are! Some people, of course, don't do this and simply capitulate physically, emotionally or mentally. It is absolutely wonderful if a person does not try to prove anything, but believes and feels that everyone has their own opinion, the right to reject someone else’s point of view and at the same time respects another view. But what if it’s not so, let’s take a closer look at the situation. If there is a strong desire to prove YOUR point of view, then there is somewhere a fear that in the event of a fiasco, the person will not be able to cope with the consequences, something will threaten him. This conclusion is usually made by children, because they have little life experience and an incompletely formed brain, where the functions of logical thinking, reflection, and introspection have not yet been developed. They are also very dependent on the opinions of parents or other important figures. It happens that a child is systematically condemned, blamed, punished for something, and then a powerful desire can form to prove that you are wrong! And this desire is like a huge spring, thanks to which the already grown child reaches various peaks in life, builds a dizzying career, acquires material wealth, etc., but at the same time he is unhappy and cannot calm down, still busy with proof. You cannot give up - there is uncontrollable and incomprehensible fear. Then the person either “wears out” all his physical and mental resources, never finding satisfaction and peace in life. Or, having realized the origin of fear and the desire to prove something to someone, he lets go of these motives and switches to others. By the way, these others, more important, can lead him to significant and grandiose achievements. But, it will be as his heart desires. Because peace and satisfaction are achieved when our most important spiritual goals are realized. To summarize: 1. If you find yourself in the process of arguing and proving, then ask yourself: Who am I really arguing with? what terrible thing will happen if I leave everything as it is?2. You have already achieved a lot, but you are still dissatisfied and restless, then ask yourself: with all these achievements do I want to prove something to someone? What will happen if I lose all this? Is there a desire of my soul in these achievements or is it from the mind? Reply Forward