From the author: If a woman constantly sways on the waves of her mood, then her relationship is not characterized by stability. Women often come to me asking me to sort out their relationships. For example, they want to break up with a man, realizing that nothing good will happen with him. But it is very difficult to separate. Realizing all the pros and cons, it is difficult for a woman to make a decision about a breakup. Loneliness, attachment and the belief that there are simply no normal men force her to change her decision many times. Today she is deeply convinced of the need for separation and can easily entertain thoughts about it. And tomorrow he already experiences exactly the opposite feelings. What to do? Let's understand the internal processes of what is happening. Part 1 If a woman constantly sways on the waves of her mood, then her relationship is not characterized by stability. On the waves of impermanence Very often, having decided to break up, after a while a woman remembers all the good things she had with her partner and begins to yearn for him. In moments of doubt, she calls the man in the hope of getting him back. If he responds to these impulses, then the relationship is resumed - until the next desire to leave on the part of the partner. Why can’t a woman remain consistent in her desires? Why is she being thrown from side to side? Either she is imbued with tenderness and love for a man, then she dreams of a free life and sees only shortcomings in her partner... Are all women like this? In fact, not every one of us has such pronounced inconstancy. As a rule, if a woman constantly sways on the waves of her mood, then her relationship is not characterized by stability. And usually she experiences certain difficulties in love. Mood swings bring disharmony not only to relationships, but also to a woman’s inner world. By broadcasting her condition to a man, she deprives him of confidence in the future and in her love. A man next to such a partner does not feel stable. But for men, the most important thing is a reliable rear. They need to feel the constancy of a woman. And if your partner periodically faces moments of rejection, then he becomes like a tree that is constantly transplanted from place to place, not allowing it to take root. And the woman is experiencing internal uncertainty. When did she develop such a program in her psyche? The origins of throwing, of course, in childhood. Her relationship with her mother was not constant and smooth. The mother either loved the child, attracted her to her, or pushed her away. She either desired intimacy with people, or dreamed of loneliness and silence. And the girl got used to this manner of behavior, and her psyche began to work in a similar mode. Having already become an adult, but not knowing how to build relationships, not having an awareness of her own boundaries, a woman simply overloads herself with intimacy, after which a natural and natural desire arises to remain alone . She approaches the man too quickly, dissolves in him, changing her life and forgetting about her usual affairs. Only the man remains in her life. The woman begins to do TOO much for her partner, try TOO hard for him, spend TOO much time with him. This “too” becomes very, very much. Fatigue accumulates from such a merger. And, of course, there is a desire to move away. Women act in different ways in this case. Someone understands their desires, but someone, on the contrary, without realizing it, begins to look for the reasons for their negativity in their partner: they said the wrong thing, did the wrong thing. A woman perceives the same actions of a man differently at different periods of time. When she feels rested and wanting love, she doesn’t notice much, but, being on a different, negative, emotional wave, she can give a completely different reaction to the same actions. Having such a mental structure, it is very difficult to understand: the reason for this state is precisely Will this man or any other cause the same discontent? How to behave? If you notice similar manifestations in yourself, do not/