In the previous article, I published a video about how to open up to the fulfillment of desires. About why it is so important to be able to ask and accept in relationships, in life, yourself, other people... In the video, I also talked about how important it is to create a space of love with the man you love. And that often you don’t need to change yourself, you need to rebuild “let go of the old relationships in order to create new ones” where you are loved, valuable and important. All this can be done in the relationship itself, without changing yourself and your partner, but by changing your relationship with him. I would like to once again emphasize that you pay attention to these important components of happiness and self-love: - be yourself, - create a space of self-love, - create a space of love in a relationship with a MAN. Create the most important relationship for you, not with your mother, not with your child, but with your husband. Girls, this is important! Everything else will be decided and changed, it will work out for the better - if you have all these three components in your life. This is a topic for thought. It may not be immediately clear. But over time, you will come to these conclusions. And if you have no time to deal with your relationship with yourself and the man you love, don’t be surprised that your whole life is falling apart at the seams. Over the past week, I have received a lot of letters from girls who shared their personal stories about that there is something wrong in their relationship (with the space of love). Now the situations. • If your husband looks to the side, you often quarrel; • You and your husband have problems about your mother (less often your father), he does not agree with your communication with her, you are offended about this; • If your husband does not always work earnings, all loans and debts have driven you into a corner; • You suspected him of betrayal. And although he denies everything, you know and go crazy, you have hysterics about this; • From time to time the relationship is restored, then it hits you again, you have a nervous breakdown, because you have evidence of his infidelity - they have in your arms...• He says let's get a divorce, that he will live alone, and you don't know what to do?• You would go to your mother, then the quarrels subside a little and you seem to live calmly. Then everything repeats again.• And you still don’t have time to create a space of love in your relationship with your husband... You are busy with your mother, children, work... Girls - no time for relationships - no happiness, no relationships. There is no growth for you and your man, no wealth, no love and well-being. What then is there? About what is listed above - loneliness, even if you are married, the man is always out there somewhere, with someone... In your in the hands of fate of the unfortunate people around you who constantly need you...What's wrong with all this? By not choosing a husband, you create suffering around you. Something is higher than the importance of love than your relationship. And yet, perhaps you have not taught your heart to love the man himself. So he goes to where he is loved more. Where he is welcome, where he is valued. Why blame him for the fact that you don’t value him in anything...Perhaps you put your mother above your husband. That's why everything collapses - marriage, love, family... This cannot be done. You need to listen to your husband - say, you are more important to me, I love you, you are my life partner, I will follow you, whatever you decide will be so. If you want, we’ll leave, or if you want, we won’t go to see your mother... Or let’s decide together what’s best for us. Do you understand? You can love your mother, but your husband should be MORE LOVE to you. Otherwise, why did you choose him then? If your husband fights with you, with your mother, or has taken on a mistress, all this is because he is not in the first place for you. And if you love your child more than your husband, than yourself, he will not love the child either. And he will go to another, the one who will love HIM. This is a consequence of the fact that the man is NOT loved, he is not important. Love must be revealed to a Man - a Woman. Reveal your femininity. This is the answer. We weren't taught that way. We were taught to fight, work, serve, deserve - but not to love, not to be a woman... We don’t know how to be women, we don’t have time... Even at 70, we may never become feminine. But we can only achieve this by 70.:)