From the author: The article was published on the website on December 9, 2012. He is an active fidget, a spoiler, emotional, mobile, assertive and restless. He needs to keep up with everything, explore everything, check, not miss anything, if something suddenly happens without him, he will be incredibly upset. A million things that he simply needs to do, and immediately without delay, often exhaust a choleric child, which is why he becomes irritable and sometimes even aggressive, his inability to stop and concentrate leads to him getting tired both emotionally and physically . A distinctive feature of a choleric child is a lack of attention, an inability to complete a task begun, restlessness and restlessness; they do not allow the little choleric person to concentrate and often become the reason for his lack of restraint and conflict. Most often, choleric children know exactly what they want, and persistently and persistently achieve it, not by washing, but by skating. It is practically impossible to force a little choleric person to do anything against his will, as they say, at a cost to himself... Parents of a choleric child should stock up on angelic patience, try to take into account the peculiarities of his temperament and understand that it is difficult, almost impossible for him to cope with impulsiveness, vulnerability to outbursts of anger, pugnacity and inability to self-control, all these qualities greatly disturb the baby, even an adult choleric person sometimes copes with them with incredible difficulty. Organize joint walks, hikes, and competitive outdoor games more often, because... Your child needs space and freedom; do not try to raise him to be a calm, assiduous child. This is impossible and dangerous for a choleric person, teach him to bring the work he has begun to its logical conclusion, but keep in mind that in your understanding and in the understanding of your choleric child they will be different, because every choleric person believes that any result of his activity available today is worthy praise, praise your choleric person, but do not over-praise. A little choleric person should have his own responsibility: putting away toys, helping his mother set the table (for example, serving forks and spoons), watering flowers, taking out the trash, in accordance with age, but it is always his personal responsibility, so to speak. Don’t scold him in front of strangers, don’t punish him when he’s screaming, crying, hysterical, give him time to cool down and only after that calmly and peacefully explain what he did wrong and what to do in this or that situation. Sometimes an explanation of the consequences of the action of a choleric child should be postponed until the next day, since he himself would really like to learn to control himself if it were possible, but he is not yet able to do this, be patient and be calm , help your baby. Learn to control, first of all, your emotions, and before you say anything to a choleric child in a fit of anger or passion, stop, take a few deep breaths and think about whether your emotions, shouts and notations will help steer the situation and extinguish the emerging conflict. Be wise, because you are adults and understand your baby better than he does. Remember that you cannot suppress a choleric child, he will still not become either sanguine or phlegmatic, no matter how much you want it, take into account his pros and cons, organize his life in accordance with his capabilities. Suppress and manage different things, learn to manage correctly, without irritation, with understanding and patience, and you will be rewarded!