The beginning. Article about patriarchal and partnership relations here A mix of partnership and patriarchal relations is impossible, which is confirmed by the board in the comments to the article Patriarchal family in a new way! He who pays calls the tune. History 1. Everything, as in beautiful melodramas and glossy magazines. Country estate for a high stone fence, luxury, outfits, servants, a personal driver for her and the children, a driver on duty for household needs. “Darling, don’t deny yourself anything,” says your beloved husband. Give birth and raise children, nannies and support staff will help you. Choose the best educators and teachers for children, classes for yourself. I'll pay for everything! Oh! This is exactly the kind of life that many girls, young women, and young women dream of! The heroine of this story is allowed a lot, except money. She doesn’t even have her own “10 kopecks”! - Why do you need money? I pay for everything! - her beloved husband tells her. And indeed, he pays. She tells him how much and why she needs the money. Do you think that he immediately reaches out to the wallet and gives her as much as she wants? He really invests his strength, skills and abilities in increasing profits. He needs weighty arguments to give the required amount. Every time She argues, and he makes a decision: “Yes or no.” Some of you, dear girls, will exclaim: “This is great, you don’t have to think about food and buy it, about everyday life and keep order, where and when rest! Yes, our heroine doesn’t have to think about anything at all. Her husband thinks for her! He pays for rest, entertainment, everyday life, life support for her and her children, so he decides where, how much and when. She has no right to choose. And this is payment for what her husband provided her. Someone will exclaim: - Yes, how cool! Well, let my husband decide and do it for me! And I will rest! You’re wrong! He who pays calls the tune. The husband of the heroine of our story finds time to ask his wife, as the mother of his children, the results of the development and upbringing of the successors of his family. The conversation with his wife is specific, he’s for everything pays! Once a week he talks with the children, testing their knowledge, skills and abilities, and then asks his wife! This is her payment for a glamorous, and what do you think, carefree life “behind her husband, like behind a stone wall.” If you want to live in your own pleasure with her husband’s money and at the same time not bear any obligations to him, then it is unlikely that there will be such a fool who agrees to “pay for the goods and leave it on the counter.” Even if you are supported, you will have to pay for this maintenance with something of your own! PS I am familiar with such families, and I saw what was there, behind the stone wall! Any coincidence confirms that a situation similar to yours is not the only one. A selection of articles on this topic© All rights reserved. Reproduction of the article is possible only with the permission of the author and a link to this site. Psychological transformation game online and individually “My happy relationship” for any age and status.