Family people live longer and happier than single and divorced people - this is a well-known fact. But, alas, this does not always happen. But only if the spouses They are truly happy in marriage, and do not tolerate each other for years because of small children or for financial reasons. Therefore, both single people and married people often want the same thing: to find a suitable couple with whom they can live a good life and meet old age together.1) Choosing a life partner is perhaps the most important choice in our life. Why are there so many good and smart people make the “wrong” choices that doom them to torment and unhappiness? The reason is that many different factors work “against us.” And we find ourselves unable to cope with them. 2) People have a poor understanding of what they really are actually want from a relationship It’s difficult for a single person to imagine what family everyday life, diapers, undershirts and other “joys” of living together look like. But this is a completely common situation for any area of ​​our life - we never get anything worthwhile until we do this a little times. Exactly until we “hit the bumps” and learn from our own mistakes (because we don’t learn from other people’s mistakes). 3) Society gives “lottery” advice on choosing a “soul mate” Public morality does not encourage a large number attempts when it comes to dating (and marriage). We are often told: “Don’t think, but feel - whether the person is for you or not.” Which, translated into the language of logic, means: (1) Rely on fate + (2) Trust your intuition and sense of smell + (3) Hope for the best. If we were to launch our own business based on such advice, we would definitely go broke. And even if they succeeded, it would be only thanks to luck, which, as we know, is very short-lived. Therefore, the final decision should be made not on emotions, but carefully analyze the most important factors influencing further life together.* And you managed to crack the code of a “worthy choice” of a companion life?** Or did you also act by “scientific pointing” with your finger at the sky??