In one decent family, where there was a mother, father and grandmother, there lived a baby. And everything was fine with him until mom and dad developed a crack in their closeness. Of course, because of this, both mom and dad were busy sealing this crack, and for a while they let their son go into his fantastic explanation of the events happening to him. By the way, the baby could not get used to the potty for a long time; for some reason he liked to endure it for a long time, and then hide behind the sofa and relieve his natural needs right in his pants. Probably the parents and grandmother tried very hard to teach the child to use the toilet, but apparently they did it in such a way that the child still had a fear of pots and toilets and he could not always go to the toilet alone; often the whole family, often the mother, took part in this. Due to the above circumstances (cracks in relationships), the child did not feel completely protected and connected with the family. If the parents are busy sorting out their relationship, which certainly raises the mother’s anxiety, then the grandmother experiences her anxiety about what is happening in the family by immersing herself in a program about psychics, who thus support her faith in the savior. Suddenly, at some point, the baby began to refuse to attend kindergarten, which further increased the parents’ anxiety and further deepened the cracks in their relationship. Dad couldn’t support mom; his only solution was to continue going to kindergarten, no matter what, while grandma watched her mystical programs and, together with the child, was interested in the lives of animals. Therefore, a five-year-old child easily formed for himself a picture of the world filled with germs, snakes, dogs, ghosts, tyrannosaurs, which first came to him in a dream and he could not sleep alone, and could not really tell his parents why. And then they began to appear in real space, choosing a toilet for themselves, especially in kindergarten. Apparently the five-year-old child had already become acquainted with shame, and already understood that boys should not be afraid (father's influence). Therefore, he carefully hid all his fears and visions from everyone. The kid met a girl who also had the same fears in the past; she could easily feel what the little boy was going through and invited him to draw on a frightening topic. It turned out to be an interesting thing: not a single picture showed mothers, fathers, or grandmothers, but there were snakes, dogs, and dinosaurs trying to devour him. The only creature that did not frighten him, and which he cared for, was a strange flower with one green leaf. The boy could not stop, drawing one dream where he was riding alone on an empty bus in fear and horror. And when he was able to stop, he said that he had a lot of fears, and there wasn’t enough paper to draw them all. We decided that until we could deal with our fears, it was better not to go to kindergarten, and that therapy was needed more by the parents than by the child. The story is simple to the point of banality, how easily and naturally minor childhood troubles can radically change a child’s life and grow into a big problem, if you don’t give them the proper significance and attention, if you don’t distract yourself from your adult problems and don’t understand that the child is absorbing the general field ( it’s alarming).Another story about a girl, 5 years old, who was afraid to be left alone without her mother, was afraid of kindergarten and was generally afraid that she would be forgotten somewhere, in this family there was also a crack in the relationship between the parents, her dreams and fantasies in reality it was also filled with terrible cartoon characters (ghosts, black men). This terrible armada attacked the girl at night, and she learned to fight it off with the help of a sword given by the duckling, who later became her savior and friend. At the end of this story, I would like to say that for any child of this age, the belief that with Everything will be fine for him, that he will live, that always in difficult times someone will come to the rescue and it would be better if, instead of a duckling, parents or close people were the saving force.).