From the author: What type of girl do you consider yourself to be? Hello friends! Today let's look at the topic of relationships (just starting, or already existing) in which a girl can commit (let's call them that) " "mistakes" that can alienate a man and ruin a relationship. Let me say right away that our girl most likely makes these "mistakes" not on purpose or out of spite, but because this is how she sees ways of interacting with the opposite sex. And perhaps this The article will help someone think and see from the outside what is happening in your life. So, let's get started! I will describe here several types of girls and the characteristics of their behavior. The list, of course, will not be complete and mixtures of types and strategies of behavior are possible. The “I’ll show you how independent I am” girl! It’s common for this type, from the first dates, to show, tell and prove to men that she (the girl) doesn’t need them at all. That she is “her own boss” and knows how to support herself and entertain herself. Such a girl tries to show with her behavior that she is modern, independent and, in general, beautiful from all sides. However, a man often “hears” from such a companion a somewhat different message: “I can do everything myself, I don’t need anyone, and you, In fact, I don’t need it, because I feel good and even great on my own!” If a man is initially satisfied with this approach, and he enters into a relationship with such a girl, what can this lead to? The girl, striving first of all to prove to herself how independent and proactive she is, will now take on not only her own tasks, but also those of her man. On the one hand, he will decide and resolve issues “for himself and for that guy,” and on the other hand, he will most likely be burdened by the lack of initiative of his partner. She will be angry that he doesn’t need anything, that she alone bears the burden of all life, family and problems, and he is happy with everything. And this is logical, because You need more energy, it runs out faster, and there’s nowhere to replenish it with such a schedule. Girl “I will prove to you that I am no worse (and actually better) than you!” What is characteristic of a girl who competes with a man? - That she, at any opportunity, will demonstrate her superiority, prove to herself and to him that she is smarter, smarter and generally better than him. Such evidence can be hidden or explicit, due to the enhanced demonstration of one’s achievements and the requirement for the partner to recognize their merits in an active form. Or maybe by belittling the abilities and merits of the partner - this already depends on each individual girl. And, as you understand, such an approach to relationships and a partner cannot contribute to the establishment of trusting and respectful relationships. If a partner is not prone to masochism in a relationship, an alliance with such a girl is unlikely to suit him. A dictator girl or “I have to control everything!” As is already clear from the name of this type of girl, they are prone to control and manipulation of a partner, to violating his boundaries, to actively getting involved in his life and making decisions for him. Girls of this type can occupy leadership positions at work or simply in their life there was such an example of family distribution of roles. Such a girl tends to control everything, decide and keep her finger on the pulse, and when her partner suddenly “rebels” or tries to defend his boundaries, quarrels, scandals and misunderstandings begin. If this type of behavior and reaction “pops up” from time to time, most likely , he will provoke quarrels and scandals in relationships. And if a girl broadcasts such an “approach” constantly, only a man who was in a similar position in a child-parent relationship would want and be able to enter into a relationship with her. It is important to understand that, of course, each of these types can and do have long-term relationships, they are created families and people can live together for a long time. But for this, a condition must be met under which each of the partners in this relationship receives what he has an inclination for and in what