-"My child cries a lot in response to criticism. Also, if something didn't go the way he wanted" (Child 9 years old) - "He can get very upset, sometimes to the point of aggressive reactions if they don’t play by his rules, or they said something critical about him” (Child 5 years old) “I tell him how to do it, he’s small, so he starts to fight, then he cries” (Child 2.5 years old) And I would continue the list of stories in which the parent talks about the child’s reactions, so to speak, not very acceptable, understandable, unnecessary (here I want to focus on how children at different ages respond in their own way to something). control, the desire of the parent to see in them an ideal from their own attitudes. Where is the connection? I’m telling you 👇 ✅ In the first case, the child often cries to criticism, because there is a lot of it addressed to him! The mother has a clear idea of ​​what her child should be like during these times. the framework “does not fit.” In addition, the mother is emotionally cold and unclear, which increases the child’s resentment (this is the feeling, according to the youngest client, that is hidden behind his tears). ✅The second case is similar to the indestructible boundaries of “how it should be” addressed to the child. He just expresses his feelings differently - aggressively. ✅For a 2.5-year-old child, everything is written down (the rules of life). But it is so especially important for him to get to know his independence that he cannot demonstrate anything other than anger towards his parent. Why am I doing this!? ➡Emotions are our reaction to the environment. What is around your children? If you immerse yourself more often in the life of your child (imagine, and if they told me that, did that, etc., what would happen to me, HOW would I react!?), you will become closer to each other. ➡Where does your story come from to “make” out of a child what should be, in your opinion, correct (here I’m talking about those cases when there is no place for the opinions, characteristics, and feelings of children)!? Take a closer look..open the door to your child’s world. Right now !? What are your children like!? What do they want, what do they know, what are they afraid of, what makes them happy? And if resistance arises in you to meet the present, then there is a good reason to consult a psychologist (By the way, you can also come to me, I am a psychologist and for PARENTS) ➡Be together more often, intensely, sensually, close to each other in soul! Children are like that...they are about love and care💞