CHILDREN ARE NOT OUR PROPERTY How is it that this song (we are talking about one where the musicians yell something and usually shake their heads to it) is my son’s favorite at 3 years old? My favorite song is completely different. It is melodic and beautiful... It’s simple: children are not our property. Even though for the time being we bear full responsibility for them. Children are not our property. They may like a song that you don’t like, they may be a fan of bugs, even though you hate them. And also adore cutlets, even if you are a vegetarian [I wonder if there are any here?] Children are not our property. They may refuse to wear the sweater you lovingly knitted. Do not eat super tasty (in your opinion, of course) borscht. And absolutely do not appreciate the classes and sections that you carefully chose (yes, and for which you also paid 💰) for them. By the way, this was the case with us. With swimming pool. So pass for now. Although I myself love the pool - I think it is very beneficial for the health of the psyche and body. Besides pleasure. But children are not our property. Sometimes their actions can cause different feelings. And you are not at all obligated to approve of their every step (some people exhale at this thought, while others want to throw tomatoes at me). You can be angry about many things related to them. You have every right to do this. But keep your balance. And no physical punishment. Yes, yes, because children are not our property. I write everything absolutely sincerely 😉 Because I don’t have a rigid image of what my child should be like. What a child should be like in general. I remember that building expectations is a utopia. Children are not our property👌🏼 And about the song - it was just fun, it’s a normal song. But it was she who made me think 😊——————Share your opinions and counter-opinions in the comments! ☺——————More interesting things on my Instagram* @maria.venger INSTGR_LINKSign up for a consultation here 😊My TOP books on parenting here📚 *Instagram belongs to Meta, which is recognized as an extremist organization in Russia.