🚩 How to become an ideal parent? Some parents are worried about the question: How to become an ideal parent for their child? The correct answer is NO way! You can become a bad parent, a tolerable parent, a good parent, but nothing ideal. Mission impossible! You can be a better parent tomorrow than I am a parent today. Becoming a good parent is a process that requires time, effort and constant self-analysis.❓What to do?👇🏼 A lot of different advice can be given in answer to this question .I’ll share one that I think is very relevant right now, when parents have forgotten how to relax and slow down. It’s important to learn how to spend quality time with your children. I want to clarify what I mean by the word “quality”: IT’S RELAXED! Whatever you do with them: read, play, talk, fool around - if you are relaxed, you are included in your child, you are in the process here and now, you enjoy this process and the child is happy. If you are tense, and there is a swarm of thoughts in your head about five hundred things that still need to be done, you will strive to free yourself as quickly as possible, the child will feel it, your pastime will be formal, superficial, offending the child and showing him that he is not very important to you. WITH INTEREST! Whatever you do: play, talk, fool around, you have a sincere interest in the child. You are interested in his games, events, experiences, feelings, his sorrows and joys. Before you is a personality, amazing and unique. And you listen to his suggestions to jump, shout, his dreams, complaints, sometimes they may seem insignificant to you, maybe even idiotic, but you listen with interest only to your hero: you don’t interrupt, don’t criticize, don’t judge, don’t give advice. Just look at him. If parents do not show interest in the child, then the child becomes uninteresting to himself. Becoming a good parent is a process that never ends. Strive to continually improve your skills and be the best parent you can be to your child..