For people who recognize (believe) the Creator, the Higher Power, the Information Field, etc. - at some stage there comes the need to solve the main problem - but how to understand? In the joke, this has already been “tested”: when you talk to God, this is prayer... And when God is with you? Answer from the crowd: maybe madness? Well, who cares I like it, of course!) For myself, I have the concept that the Higher Powers can relate to people, as parents do to small children (and in general - to children - any)). A parent does not expect that the child will understand him - he sits down on the child's eye level and begins to look for contact - by any means necessary! The baby’s eyes and his reactions let the parent know - there is contact!) Well, in communication with people - this can also be the case... They don’t want to scare us, disturb us... they act very carefully - through dreams, through insights, projections... And when the “children” grow up - it dawns on them that the Parent can be told some symbols that the Child is already able to understand!) These are advanced Children, of course!)) Or playing... Which is also great! But there is such a phenomenon among people - such games are called manipulations! would be - almost in the image and likeness - of the Parent). However, the goals are different. Let She (He) understand me! Let him do what I need! I’ll give hints or “play out charades” - I wonder if he’ll figure it out? I seem to be communicating (“steering”), but it seems like I’m not! If things get “hot” - you can say - you yourself/ I came up with this myself! (she herself is a fool/fool) On the one hand, I understand that such behavior is caused in people by their traumas - they themselves are also victims. But when you see how the partners of such victims suffer... The thought comes that it is impossible to embrace the immensity! Yes, they come more often those who are being manipulated go to a psychologist. And the psychologist interacts with those who have asked for help. And sometimes - you really want to turn to the manipulator himself for a heart-to-heart conversation!) True, there are times when the manipulative partner suddenly expresses a desire to communicate! And, for example, he goes to communicate with a psychologist (with whom his partner or partner works) with an open (non-fogged) visor!) Habitually breaking the boundaries of the interlocutor - even if he is a psychologist). But there was definitely a desire! And the result could have been achieved... Just keeping your partner under control often outweighs reasonable arguments... unfortunately. Many people encounter manipulators and find themselves captive to illusions that destroy them. If you have suffered such a fate, you already guessed that you are being manipulated , but you can’t cope with the situation - there is always the opportunity to find help! Only this is a conscious choice! Realized - come! You can sign up for a consultation with me here.