Today I read in a men’s online magazine an article “Carrot or Stick” where female hysteria comes from, how to deal with it and whether it can be defeated. Why do you have to fight and win? Are there any other behavioral patterns? For example, realize the true cause, eliminate it and live happily. The article presents this problem in a one-sided way. It all basically comes down to the fact that women don’t have enough sex, “women are simply overwhelmed with sexual energy,” and secondly, they are simply underdeveloped, “delayed psycho-sexual development.” Firstly, there is no such type as sexual energy, there is simply energy, and secondly, it turns out that only they are undeveloped, and the rest are so developed. I myself would never contact Dr. Poperechny and I do not recommend it to others. Because I have a question for him, why doesn’t he, such a developed psychologist, know how to cope with hysteria, but my daughter can? Hysteria is an external manifestation, a negative release of pain, fear, aggression, discomfort accumulated inside. This is just a type of manifestation. There are a lot of types (the same drunkenness, delinquent behavior, walking on women (men), workaholism, etc.). This type is indeed most often found in women who are fragile (as they write in the article); in Ayurveda this type is called “Vata”. Negative discharge occurs not only in women whose type is described in the article. It just manifests itself differently in others. For example, in women of average build it takes the form of suppressing others, sudden aggression and throwing “chairs”. Women's hysteria is not from a lack of sex (poor sex, it’s almost like that right away), but from accumulated pain, fear and lack of internal warmth. How come psychologists haven’t figured this out yet?! Internal pain is brought to a person by the feelings of insignificance, rejection, inferiority, and worthlessness that live within him. As they accumulate, they require release, otherwise they will destroy (which, however, sometimes occurs in the form of destruction of internal organs). Free yourself from these feelings, and you will feel less pain, therefore less hysterics, negative emissions, and more joy and happiness in your soul. But do not do this at the expense of pride, arrogance and humiliation of others. In these ways you will not free yourself, but will only aggravate your pain. Sex is very often used precisely in order to relieve accumulated pain, fears, aggression, internal discomfort, and not in order to enjoy intimacy with the person you love (in general, it is not used for purpose). Therefore, sex is a tool that helps prevent the manifestation of hysteria, and indeed any negative outcome. During that same orgasm, release occurs, then relaxation and fleeting happiness. And the lack of sex, I repeat once again, is not the cause of hysteria, but the lack of a tool. A woman does not need either a carrot or a stick at the moment of negative “exhaust” (Lord, she is not a slave, not an animal), she does not need to be consoled or ignored. She needs your warmth, your goodwill, your ability to remain calm and confident. She needs to be told calmly, confidently (without ingratiation), warmly that you love her (if, of course, you love her), that she is good and that everything will work out for her. Her hysteria will end much faster. When she is in a calm state, talk sincerely and kindly (if you can) with her about this, because this is a problem that is worth solving and, most likely, with the help of a specialist. If a woman refuses to talk to you about this topic, then decide for yourself to be with her or not. And also think about why a woman behaves this way with you. Men also have hysterics, negative outbursts, and for the same reasons. And what do you need at such moments? I developed the “I am a woman, and I’m right” program using psychoenergetic techniques, upon completion of which, your negative emissions will noticeably decrease (if they do not go away completely). Interesting? Ask questions.