From the author: this is the first time this introduction to the topic is by no means part of a series of warnings “don’t get involved, it’ll kill you,” but so that the romantic charm of constellations does not cross the boundaries of reason. I’ll try to explain this with examples .Example one: during a consultation, the client states the topic: I want to do an arrangement because my cat’s fur does not grow in the right places. And I have to find out what bothers her personally about this, and how you can stop worrying about the fur, even if it does grows, then this will not be the result of the arrangement. Example two: another client who has not balanced his financial relationship with his ex-wife comes to a constellation with the goal of changing her reaction to the very fact of injustice and does not want to make a decision to do anything to restore a fair balance. Both examples speak of a mystical perception of constellations like asking for a goldfish. And this always leads to either disappointment or awareness of one’s mistakes, and in the second, a conscientious constellation should help, who is not mistaken himself and does not use the client’s misconceptions for selfish purposes .The best way to the constellation is an individual consultation with the constellation to clarify the request and determine the indications for the constellation. It is no secret for professional constellations that the consequences of “early trauma” manifest themselves in the client’s inability to formulate a request and the approach to the method here is different, requiring special care and long-term support in order to avoid retraumatization. And it is also important to explain this to the client very correctly, without giving him the impression of refusal. And such cases sometimes have to be observed. Constellations are a very subtle and effective tool, but like any such tool, it must be used for its intended purpose and with proper skill. And if you hear about constellations declaring themselves seers, gurus or prophets, then you become insulted for the method and its creator, who unwittingly provoked a wave of, on the one hand, clients expecting a MIRACLE, and on the other hand, unscrupulous specialists who support such sentiments, sometimes due to their own incompetence, or fraudulent intentions. Believe me, I am not unfounded. What is worth just one example of the tour of the healer Daniil, conducting constellations with the help of a medium and using stage hypnosis techniques with all the attributes, including “decoy ducks”. For his promises to get rid of everything at once, he asks for 30 thousand rubles .He gets rid of one thing with a guarantee - from money. And from the standpoint of constellations, ill-gotten money upsets the balance in the system and can lead to more severe consequences. Only a respectful attitude towards the client, his family line and his problem, as a manifestation of special relationships in the family and the special destinies of the members of his family, leads to finding a good solution to the problem. TO BE CONTINUED...