First you need to make sure that this is really your life goal. Very often we achieve those life goals that are customary to achieve, which are approved in society or, for example, in our family. And also the goals that mom, dad, husband, or maybe one of our loved ones dreamed of. So we want to get their approval, then the goal here will be approval and the whole strategy will be adjusted to the approval, and not to the goal that we voice. For example, the goal may be “to earn 500,000 per month,” but in reality the person will be guided by your internal goal - “approval”. In his family, this is achieved due to the fact that this person studies, gives discounts to those who need it, basically helps a lot for free, and then he will not be able to achieve the goal of “earning 500,000 per month.” But he will not change anything, because his unconscious goal is being achieved - “to gain approval.” If you have nevertheless decided on your life goal and know that this is exactly your goal. This is not something that is accepted in society, not what is fashionable now, for example, in the social network community, or rather, it is not something that will attract the approval of your loved ones. This is really your life goal - what should be. First of all, we should write down what rules we will follow, what rules we will adhere to when we achieve this goal. For example: what we will not agree to, what We won’t make sacrifices, no matter what the cost. I don’t need this goal. This is very important to do so that we have an internal sense of security. Many people do not dare to take the first step because of fear, and their fear arises because of a premonition - “there are no unsafe conditions.” For example, I will start a blog, it will go very well for me and I will have to spend a lot of time not with my family . Let’s say I fly on business trips, meet different people, miss family events, but I don’t want that, family is important to me. Then the person will constantly push back the first step. Or, let’s say, delay the development of his professional path because he will be afraid. But when we have rules, we create safe conditions for ourselves, and within these safe conditions we can move quite comfortably. The next step is to draw up a plan for several months in advance. Not for a few years, not for some global, huge goal, which is simply too much for us at the moment. Describe what we will do over the course of several months and what adequate result, not huge, we should get in the final. This is what we will focus on - what we will keep our focus on. Next, you need to write down: what new actions, new steps, new events need to be included so that we really use new tools, but at the same time time, we cannot overload ourselves with this. Our task is to move forward systematically, in small steps, without stress. In order to avoid a rollback. Do not under any circumstances be guided by slogans from pseudo-psychology: “go into your own fear; go where it’s scary; challenge, do something that is not typical for you.” This can be neither bad nor good, but rather a good tactical move. But strategically it will be a failure. Because when a person does something that is not typical for him, he will be pushed back very strongly. He may develop burnout, he may be very tired, he may go into alcoholism, he may simply wake up one day and discover that he no longer wants anything and stop doing what he was doing before. We move towards the goal systematically, small steps, without strain and without rollback. Even more interesting things in my telegram channel. How to apply psychology for business and benefit from it: CLUB FOR ENTREPRENEURS AND EXPERTS “Business without hysterics”».