This frightening word “betrayal”...When at first you are numb from the very fact that you have been betrayed. You deny it, but you understand that it still happened. You are overwhelmed by a wave of despair, a feeling of loneliness and injustice. The ground is disappearing from under your feet. Hopes and plans are dashed. Neither tears nor the support of loved ones help. Nothing. And then emptiness comes... I will be glad if this is not familiar to you. After all, in terms of strength, the stress from the betrayal of a loved one is equal to the stress after the death of a loved one. This is terribly exhausting and we begin to look for reasons in ourselves and our partner. There are a great variety of them, from banal boredom and the desire to diversify life to the understanding that the relationship has outlived its usefulness. Or maybe this is revenge? People use sex on the side as a release and release of tension. Sometimes the goal is a feeling of guilt for betrayal, which “glues” the relationship together for a while. This tendency is also inherent in people who tend to avoid truly close and deep relationships. And, by the way, there are cases when one of the partners thus receives additional pleasure from the adrenaline rush. After all, this is a small crime that only he knows about. Well, the lover, and perhaps the lover’s friends😂 and perhaps not only them. But that doesn't stop anyone. After all, this is essentially a game. Statistics indicate that about half of women cheat on their husbands, and there are much more men who cheat on their wives. Be that as it may, infidelity in a relationship is experienced hard by both spouses. It would seem that if a person understands that he is hurting his other half, how can he look for adventures on the side? I will discuss the most common reasons and motives in the following posts, I think you will interesting. If you look around, this phenomenon affects more than 60% of families. People carefully plan their “trips to the left.” Tactics, strategy, new cell phone numbers, covering for comrades. And all this to get a new dose of pleasure and stress to boot. After all, you need to explain yourself somehow, because both spouses and lovers expect something from you. And there are possible consequences - pregnancy or blackmail from a lover. This is where the real adventure begins😁🥴Sometimes it lasts a lifetime.•••For everyone, betrayal is something different. For some, just a glance or innocent flirtation from a partner will seem like betrayal, while for others it is easy to turn a blind eye to betrayal if he understands that there is nothing there other than sex. There are many reasons for betrayal. Let's look at the most common ones.🤍 A common phenomenon is different temperaments... It happens that a wife needs sexual relations several times a week, but a husband needs it every day, or vice versa.🤍Work takes up most of our time, emotional and physical fatigue kills all sexual desire . And this leads to distance between partners. As a rule, the comforter is located at work - where a person spends a lot of time. What if the partner cheated first? Revenge and the desire to inflict the same pain on a partner makes us, alas, no better. Well, the desire to raise your self-esteem through cheating too. After 40-45 years, a person begins to feel that the years are passing. Many people want to prove to themselves that they are still very attractive and there is gunpowder in their flasks. It happens that a partner deliberately commits adultery in order to bring an explosion of emotions into family life. The spouses begin to understand how important they are to each other, and this is a new turn in the relationship. Although this is a very controversial method 😵‍💫🤍Polygamy is in the blood 😁 This does not mean that the partner does not love his other half, it’s just that nature takes over. They simply cannot physically remain faithful. No one has canceled casual relationships. And, of course, the catalyst is alcohol. And it doesn’t matter who this person will be: a colleague, a new acquaintance or a close friend. How can you resist here if the situation contributes to liberation 🤷🏻‍♀🤍And if your partner constantly presses and controls and you want to run away from it? If divorce is not possible, an affair on the side is a way of escaping reality.🤍Love...The most dangerous.