You can't show up. Early traumatic experiences of rejection. Fear of being different and standing out. Go to the center. Express yourself. Say no. Go against someone's will and express your opinion. Otherwise, the occurrence of panic attacks and agitation of the vegetative system. Tendency to adapt, not to stand out from the pack, fear of conflicts. At school, such children can be outcasts or vice versa, covering up their vulnerability. The leading motives of the psyche 🐌 are to avoid/hide. Although in fact, by hiding this part, people also reject this world, people, hiding in their shell. If we talk about the female part. Very often nature endows them with natural beauty. Which, on the contrary, they try to hide (sometimes from the narcissist mother). Predominance of masculine energy. There are maternal injuries that are transmitted to the child. Intuitively hide your sexuality. Unsafe field in the family. It's like a girl dash a boy. What to do about it? Observe yourself in front of the mirror. Watch every day starting from 5 minutes. And compare your inner feeling with your appearance. Is it really. The self-perception of being somehow different, which prevents it from manifesting itself, does not always coincide with the external one. When you look at yourself, do you look through whose eyes and with what feelings? Why are you angry and why do you hate, why are you embarrassed... What causes fear to manifest itself? Don't rush.. You need to be gentle with yourself here.. Feel it. How do I look at myself? And who do I want to hide from? Who do I want to be invisible to? What will happen if I become a woman, a beautiful woman, a successful woman with a beautiful body and a bright appearance? Or if men start seeing me again. The answers can be written down on a piece of paper and analyzed. Start noticing how you do it. For example: do not dress brightly, do not paint your lips, do not let your hair down, do not wear tight or short clothes. Don't fight it. Continue to do this, but with awareness. Do this for a while, and watch the sensations, how something changes, whether some other small detail can be allowed. Or you still feel tension. Pin up a beautiful hairpin, or put on a small brooch, or a bracelet (pendant, earrings, bright manicure), whatever you want. Start small. Getting used to the experience. Not striving for anything. I wish you the manifestation of your feminine 🌸🙌🏼Beauty/Sexuality/Relaxed body 🌺 And you can also sign up for a consultation on WhatsApp +79166153208