One of the popular women’s questions concerns the desire to understand their feelings. After an acquaintance and even a very short communication, a girl may feel that she likes her new acquaintance. Then she notices that his image is gaining more and more space in her mind, thoughts about him are supplemented by dreams and fantasies about time pleasantly spent together, about strength his feelings, about beautiful courtship. The practice of recent years shows that online communication evokes the same emotional reaction as meetings in real life. Only online relationships have one serious feature - people do not see each other completely, are not present in space relative to each other, they do not feel the presence of another person nearby, his sounds, smells, movements. A person’s perception becomes fragmented, and the emptiness is filled with illusions, usually an idealized idea of ​​a person. All this supports the emotional background of falling in love. The feeling of falling in love is very resourceful, it gives a lot of strength, inspiration, generates enthusiasm. And being in such an elevated positive state is so pleasant that you don’t want to lose it, you want to maintain this bright, hope-giving image. Often such relationships do not turn into closer ones, because people are afraid to break this thread, leading to the land of sweet dreams. There are urgent matters, excuses, inconveniences, restrictions, omissions, pretense. Everything that in fact can only hinder the building of real relationships. On the one hand, a situation where a man “can’t get it out of his head” can torment, torment with the understanding that the relationship is not working out, there is no intimacy, trust, or mutual interest. On the other hand On the other hand, it is very difficult to part with thoughts about him. After all, thoughts relieve loneliness and disappointment. The only obstacle separating the reality of the possibility of a relationship from the imaginary picture is the fear of intimacy, which is a product of the fear of rejection and abandonment. Or maybe this is really love! And there is only one way to find out - to meet the real you in reality. I invite you to a consultation Why did he stop calling?