A common mistake in relationships is to equate the two words “Value” and “Need” and assume that if I am needed, then I am valued. And if I am not appreciated, then I am I don’t do enough, I need to show even more that I’m needed and useful for my partner, then I’ll definitely be appreciated. It doesn’t work that way! One thing is not always connected with the other. Let's take this example: Every house has a floor rag or a mop. Do you need it? Well, yes, a very necessary thing, as long as it fulfills its functions. How much do you value a rag or a mop? It’s unlikely... It will break, tear, and you can easily replace it with a new one. And if you are a collector and you have an original painting by a famous artist hanging for... ten thousand dollars. Do you need it in your daily life? No. Is it valuable to you? Of course! It’s the same in relationships. If there is no value, then a draft, a consumerist attitude and dissatisfaction appear in the relationship. They value you not when you are needed! There is value in a relationship when we first of all value, love and respect ourselves and secondly, show the same valuable and a loving attitude towards your partner. The question is that not everyone understands what it means to value and love oneself; many confuse self-love with selfishness. There are people who do not know how to accept love, or do not even know what it is to love; there was no such option in the picture of the world. You can read articles and books about values ​​and self-love for psychological education, this is an excellent option, but there is no solution in books applicable specifically to YOUR situation and to your life, everyone has their own experience. Over 10 years of practice, there has not been a single similar case. Behind each general request for self-love there is a unique, difficult fate of the client’s individual personality. And together we step by step step by step we build value and love for ourselves and for the world as a whole. To achieve a result you need to: Analyze your current situation Identify the true reasons and beliefs that influence you Make a plan for change AND THE MAIN THING is to act on this plan! It’s difficult on your own - come to me for help for an online consultation, I will be happy to help you There are two openings this week You can make an appointment by phone. +7(915)745-40-68