From the author: I wanted to chat with you on this topic. Your opinion is important to me! How are you with this word? How are you with Should? There is something inside: The world Should be like this (as I want me was comfortable, fair, etc.) as I think! He (she) should! To behave in different situations as I expect, want, assume from him..... Otherwise it’s wrong! I must (should) be good, faithful, honest, a good parent, not cry, etc. always and in all circumstances!!! How are you with these questions? Do you engage in such Shouldanonism, which brings pain and disappointment to you and your loved ones, prevents you from living spontaneously and flexibly, prevents you from experiencing Pleasure from the unpredictability and diversity of Life and human manifestations? And these Shoulds Are they really yours? I once found not my own, but my mother’s and father’s. Safely learned by me in childhood. And, at some point, when you realize that this is an artificially constructed cage that prevents you from taking a deep breath and opening your wings..... You want to take it apart, and get rid of or share some that are not your own) Hard work, but very necessary! After all, when you understand that no one owes anyone anything (you sincerely understand), it’s as if you are insuring your soul from unnecessary expectations, and, as a result, disappointments. You learn to see others in others and accept that they may think differently. You sometimes allow yourself to do things you’ve never done before, but now it’s very useful! You don’t expect grace from the world, from the country, from politicians, but you understand that you are the Author of Your life! And how you will live is in your hands; the amount of good and benefit in your life depends on you! Although there may be failures, they are a source of wisdom and experience! And you can do everything to increase the amount of love and kindness in the world! And you can raise such children, and they are such children.... If you want) but you shouldn’t! Coach. Hypnotherapist. Liliya Valerievna Polyakova8-910-703-33-13