Two sides of the same coin - the eternal desire to find balance, to connect white and black, conventionally “good” and “bad”. Sometimes you don’t need to try to embrace the immensity (take everything into account) or choose only one line and bend it. The search for this second side of the coin is like an attempt at a simple dialogue, where there is no right and wrong, there are simply different points of view and they both have their right to life. It’s easy to say, many will say, and they will be right, I myself often “sank” for one idea, but my experience has shown me that this, to some extent, rigidity limits my worldview and perception of the world. On the other hand, when you, like a weather vane, you tilt from one side to the other simply due to the lack of a fulcrum, a core on which your beliefs are strung logically and naturally, when you yourself are sick of this whirlwind of mutually exclusive beliefs, then this can only be compensated by the presence of secondary benefits from these chosen positions. Personally, it is much easier and more pleasant for me to interact with people of conservative views, although he is sometimes narrow-minded (look!), at the same time you see his picture of the world as a complete canvas. With “weathervanes” everything is unsteady and unreliable, the head is spinning when it’s being tossed from side to side, and if there is still no motivation, then it turns out to be a continuous patchwork quilt. It is quite understandable when such an “oil painting” is due to youth and lack of experience. Then we absorb someone else’s opinion, sometimes only because it is drawn by a person who is authoritative for us. But at some point we need to take and deal with these elements of someone else’s art in us and understand, conditionally, whether it is a “masterpiece” or a “daub.” And for this you need to have at least a draft of your own picture of the world, it starts with simple, if you like, basic needs. Examples: In what form do I prefer to eat eggs? (inspired by the movie Runaway Bride with Julia Roberts and Richard Gere). My favorite time of year and time of day? My favorite color, shape, size... Then move from the basic needs described by Abraham Maslow to more complex ones and thus build your own country, with territory, borders, laws, cultural values. When you clearly understand everything about yourself, it’s easier for you to listen and hearing a person who disagrees with you in all respects and the other side of the coin being discussed does not frighten you, does not irritate you, does not cause disgust. You are calm and do not try to “do good” with your truth and are able to respect other people’s boundaries. Your point of view cannot be shared by all people in the world; we are unique in appearance, what can we say about the inner content. Just remember the other side of the coin, we simply need it for balance.