LEVY STORIES: HOW TO OVERLOOK DESTINY 📩 From the letter: “We sort of broke up, I took my things and went to live with myself. When I left, I waited for the return. And waited for reconciliation. Somehow I didn’t take everything seriously. It was something like a game. The result is that I probably lost my physical and, most importantly, psychological point of support.. Advise me what to do, 2 years have passed, but everything is still fresh in my memory. I’m not happy about this myself, but it’s clear it’s fate.”************************************************ ***************Good afternoon. Yes, the story is in the past, but the feelings are still alive.. That is why it is more relevant for you than ever. Very contradictory, isn’t it? You want to be together - but leave, Leave - but you are waiting for a return... It seems that you had one perception of reality, and the guy had his own. Or a different understanding of the rules of the game. Perhaps actions dictated by impulses turn into a loss of oneself, making you regret what you did. This cannot make you happy. Perhaps the situation that catches you, makes you feel like a loser, has its roots in the distant past. It would be good to understand the DEEP REASONS that internally leave you marking time.❓What will help shift the flow of attention towards life? What are the possible solution OPTIONS? You can, of course, ☝Rely on DESTINY and let everything take its course - be angry at the past, feel that you have been beaten or excluded from the game - that is, internally hold on to that same past;☝ Seek help and ADVICE from different people, ask questions at psychological forums and trainings, try to independently process the past situation and start a new relationship;🤝 Start YOUR GAME from an active role: - follow the rules of relationships, do not play with the feelings of others; - strengthen your footing, feel stable; replenish your inner lack of joy, meaning, something vital; - take the necessary experience from the past; - form the ability to see reality as fully as possible; - learn to negotiate, come to a common understanding of what is happening; - harmonize words and actions; 💞 build such relationships in the future as to live and rejoice, and remember past events with a slight smile as a valuable and necessary experience.🌳 This is a path of internal development, the goal of which is to become a more MATURE person with adult reactions. The third option is usually the most difficult, since it is the path to yourself, often unique and unpredictable, but in any case, such a GAME IS WORTH THE CANDLE. I wonder what YOU WILL CHOOSE? ❄ASK QUESTIONS. 🎧 TELL ME about your life stories. Let's brainstorm together.