Finding a couple, creating a family, having children. Are these events embedded in a person’s experience even before birth, or does a person create his own life? I think that a person creates it himself. But sometimes the way he worked in past incarnations directly affects the events of his life today. There is no subtext about good or bad. This is about the experience of the soul that it goes through over many incarnations. What to do if personal relationships don’t work out? Either there is no family in the generally accepted concept, or there are no children. I have a technique in my arsenal when I invite a person to agree that this will never happen. What you dream about will never happen. Well, definitely not in this life... At first the person resists and gets angry. Then he tries to bargain, then a phase of intense sadness and emptiness sets in, and this is the most difficult moment. And after that, acceptance and humility occurs, from the word - I accept this situation with peace in my soul. Relief and lightness come. That's it! You no longer need to live in internal tension, you don’t need to make any titanic efforts, you don’t need to criticize and blame yourself, thereby destroying yourself from the inside. The body relaxes, a large amount of energy is released, it begins to circulate freely. The vector of attention shifts from this situation to oneself. Since I no longer need to make an effort there, then where can I direct my attention? This is about forgotten or deferred dreams, and about meetings with friends that are constantly postponed. New projects, travel, discoveries. Completely different horizons become visible. Who said that it should only be like this? I create my life and decide for myself what emotions and feelings I will live in next. There are many examples in life when a person dreamed for many years, aspired, spent so much energy and time... but it didn’t happen. Some lived out their lives in despair, with a feeling of failure, in claims to themselves and to the world. Someone closes down and lives with a feeling of lack of faith and hope for the best. And someone dreamed, dreamed, and then let go of the situation and began to live from a state of lightness, joy and gratitude for what is already in their life. He lives and fills himself with those emotions and feelings that make him happy. His life begins to change - his environment, hobbies - everything is a joy. And sometimes then miracles happen, and suddenly what you once dreamed of comes true. And even if life smoothly fades into sunset, a huge precondition is created for miracles in the next incarnation. Friends, don’t stop in your aspirations and dreams, but don’t hold on to it. They will definitely come true. Soul, it has no time and restrictions. Learn to live in the here and now, rejoice, and continue to dream!!! Natalya Demyanets psychologist, psychosomatics specialist My telegram channel: https://t.me/natalya_demyanets