The topic of finding the most suitable man has always been and remains relevant today. If for a man the measure of success is material wealth, then for a woman, it is often a successful marriage. There is, of course, nothing seditious in the desire to start a family, have children and live happily ever after. But for many women, unfortunately, the goal is not to create a family, but rather to get married. It is important to get the perfect proposal and be sure to take a selfie at this moment, it is important to turn the wedding into a photo shoot and receive a bunch of online congratulations and likes from the series: “Wow! You are so beautiful!”, And it is also important to have an engagement ring and thousands of hugging photos on social networks. But this is not the most important thing. This is just a tribute to the times and trends of our time, although sad (from my point of view). An interesting approach to choosing and searching for the one with whom hugs will shine on social networks. For many women, this is a caterpillar strategy. Sometimes, in extreme cases, it becomes even more like a tick strategy. It looks something like this: a caterpillar sits on a village, eats apples and waits for a person to pass by on whom it can fall. And in the case of a tick, also grab onto it so that it certainly doesn’t run away. Well, if we talk about girls, it looks like this: the girl lives with her parents, mostly at their expense (although she may not admit it, because She has enough money for entertainment and cafes). At the same time, the girl carefully looks around in search of a candidate on whose neck she can fall from her parents’ shoulders. Only men try to walk less and less under such trees and increasingly shake off the insects that have fallen on them. And you can increasingly hear complaints from girls: “I’ve already tried everything, I go everywhere, looking for my man, but I don’t meet him anywhere.” I just want to say: “You won’t see anything like this!” And what to do? It’s time to turn into... a butterfly! Butterflies, easily flapping their two wings, fly over flowers, collect nectar, and attract attention. They are light, airy, busy with their own business, do not bother anyone and do not strive to find an object to parasitize. But at the same time, people admire them and are delighted if such a butterfly lands on their hand. Likewise, a girl who has chosen the butterfly strategy lives her own independent life, develops her best qualities, and reveals her capabilities. It is light and airy, smooth and bright. She attracts attention. Among all the diversity of life, she knows how to notice the positive and strive for it with ease. A playful flick of the eyelashes and now the men freeze in the hope that this woman will want to be next to them. She doesn't expect or demand anything. And in the end she gets everything, and even more! The path from the caterpillar to the butterfly is not the path of external transformation. This is the path from within, through your realization. Metamorphosis goes through the pupal stage. This is the period when a person learns to live alone, learns independence. This is the period when a person plunges deep into himself, remaining alone with himself, getting to know himself. And now a beautiful butterfly emerges from a cocoon onto the stage... And everyone freezes in anticipation of its flight!