Today, I caught a glimpse of people sharing their impressions of the appearance of the doctor they had an appointment with this morning. And I thought... why? Who cares? Isn’t the main thing whether the doctor helped solve the problem?...All over the world, this is called discrimination. Albeit indirect. But in the countries of the post-Soviet space, this, unfortunately, is the norm. Have we really not yet learned to pay more attention to ourselves than to others? Read a book, or at least listen, drink coffee and dream, think about plans, draw, dance, sing, cook dinner, call your family and ask how they are doing... there is so much you can do for your pleasure, to lift your spirits. Or is it also a pleasure to discuss someone??? I am a practical psychologist who has now begun to move from face-to-face practice to remote (online) practice. I see many aspects in my activities that I want to correct and improve. But I criticize myself, what is the point of discussing other people. In addition, I clearly understand that I am not a speaker, not a TV presenter, not a writer, and perhaps I don’t even talk much about the theory of psychology, etc. But...I learn every day...developing as a person and a specialist. I read a lot, watch, watch, etc...daily. A beautiful picture is not always a beautiful soul; many diplomas are not always skills. Of course, I can write or talk about theory, using a lot of terminological explanations, and I even do it at conferences when I publish scientific articles (though no one reads them, well, practically no one... and there is a lot of value, so far, I don’t see it ). Changes must take place in the consciousness and subconscious of a person. A person who wants overcomes and achieves. This is the meaning of my work. Otherwise, it’s just an illusion...a dummy. When I work, I don't have to talk or dress a certain way. I work for a person's results. I work with my soul. I am an inspirational psychologist who will help a person find the strength, wisdom and necessary resources to cope with conditions or situations. I help with the necessary work in my specialty and qualifications. Everyone should be an expert in their field and work for results. Everything else is an illusion. Love yourself more than those you want to whisper about, especially if the thoughts are not entirely good. Live by yourself. Love the world and yourself. ☀❤http://astoria1386.wixsite.com/amarymonska