From the author: Continuation of a series of entertaining articles about change. Part 1: Part 2: Good day to you! Today we will talk about the third principle of change. And it is directly related to the second principle - “nothing special.” Therefore, if you missed the previous article, then it is better to read it first. The principle that I want to tell you about today is called... The principle of “V.T.B.Zh” What a mysterious set of letters! What does it mean? And it means - “you will still regret”!!! No matter what you do, you will still regret)) This is human nature. To be forever dissatisfied... Example: you came up, met - fell in love - got married. After some time, you begin to regret what you did. Intermittently, not always. But sometimes at night you regret it. But if you didn’t come up and introduce yourself, you still regret it: that you chickened out, that you missed the opportunity. Or with work. I left for a new job - sometimes you regret it, because the old place had its advantages. If you don’t leave, you regret that you’re sitting on your toes and not moving anywhere. Etc. Sounds provocative, doesn't it? In the last article I said that there is nothing special about what you dream of doing. And now - you will also regret no matter what you do))) Let me justify myself... All these dances with a tambourine are needed only to encourage you to change. Without trying to make everything perfect (“nothing special "), it will be easier for us to start changing. By legalizing our regrets about the choices we have made (“no matter what you do, you will still regret it”), we become able to continue choosing new changes and not be afraid of the consequences. This lets go of our attachment to the usual way of life , to your comfort zone. It’s liberating... PS I’m waiting for your comments. Peace for everyone! And remember...))) So far we have only slightly rocked the flywheel of change. It will only get more interesting...