It's no secret that the main problem that arises between parents and children is misunderstanding. Children behave as they want, but parents cannot find the right words to convey certain information and achieve an appropriate reaction from their child. And here the language of power comes into force, a language that is unpleasant for ourselves, but we cannot do anything about it. How else can I explain to a child if he or she simply does not hear me? What have I not done to come to an agreement with the child? We very often impose demands on OUR child, which we usually apply to ourselves, without distinguishing that a Child is a Child and, as a rule, understands the language of childhood. Remember yourself, what were you like? What did you like to do, what did you like or dislike most? Yes, but I was completely different! - I often hear in response. And of course you are right, it was just a different time. There was no TV, there was no computer, there was no practically everything that modern children have now. And this is also an indicator. Children are gradually moving from the language of touch to virtual love. Even before, in order to convey the warmth of our souls, we needed to touch, look into the eyes and in a calm voice say those cherished words for the sake of which we wanted to live, love and further develop. But now, to show our attention, we pick up the phone and call. For us, this is an indicator, but for a child? To keep our child occupied, we sit him in front of the TV or “close” our eyes to the fact that he is sitting on the computer. For us, this is an indicator, but for a child? What else are we ready to do and what are we willing to go to in order to limit our own child in love, attention and care? How to find a common language with your “adult, meaningful” child? How to raise the whole family, pursuing one policy and achieve tangible results? I will be happy to answer these and other questions during a personal consultation.