😏I really liked and was hooked by the quote related to and answering the question do we owe our children?🔸 “Children do not ask us to be born, it is we who want them to appear, so we can’t do anything from them demand. We must help them survive in this world. Children must be given wings so that they can fly high, and roots so that they always have a place to return to.”😔Unfortunately, many believe that children should and are obliged to simply for the fact that they were born.☝I would like to note that I do not encourage people to be selfish and live for their own pleasure, forgetting about their parents. Everything should be possible and of good will, come from the heart, not to the detriment of yourself and your family.🤔I know many similar cases, among my friends and friends whose parents demand, try to manipulate, developing a complex in children with loud words: “ I gave birth to you, raised you. Now you owe me...” But this is not correct.❓And where do people so often come from who are truly convinced that the child owes them. “Well, I carried him, suffered, gave birth, and now I also cook and wash for him, so “Let him work off such a good attitude” - these are the words I sometimes hear from “miserable mothers” 🤥But let’s be honest: We ourselves make the decision to conceive a child, and at the moment of making the decision we acquire responsibilities, which include the fact that parents are obliged to take care about the baby, and at the same time, parents should not demand return from the child.❗ I think it is important to remember that children DO NOT OWE us ANYTHING. We gave them life and love them, but they have their own path. In turn, it is very important for us to be there, but not to try to walk their path for them. The feelings, thoughts and opinions of our children are of great importance. And the help coming from our children to us should not be “under pressure” and in the form of coercion, it should come from the heart.❗But again: I’m not saying that a child should not help, but his help should be selfless , pure, because the child, feeling cared for, also strives to do something good. Otherwise, if you force a child, then on the contrary he will not want to do anything. I will help you in solving any requests and problems with minimal waste of time, effort and resources89500809720 - telegram, WhatsApp.