I am sometimes surprised how much everything is programmed in a person and how much a person is not aware of these programs. I'm not talking about biological programs, although they are so perfect that they amaze the imagination. Take biological mechanisms, for example. Many of our impulsive actions are caused by our nervous system (and we sin on fate and bad luck). Everything works intelligently, synchronously, consistently. Our instincts are aimed not only at preserving life, but also at procreation. Everything is geared towards preserving the vital activity of the individual and the population. These programs are not changeable, they can only be broken... And the genetic code. This is a miracle and that’s all. How thoughtful everything is by nature! Some abilities are supported by others. They create a predisposition, expressed in a propensity for a particular activity. The combination of inclinations and the abilities and skills developed against their background are expressed in talent. Everything is inherited, honed over generations, activates dormant genes, is modified and improved, creating a new human talent. This is also inherent in nature, but you need to look for them, try them, explore yourself. Every person has a talent. It may be dormant or mistakenly denied by a person. Talent should not be confused with skill. Skill comes with experience, acquired gradually and with effort. Inclinations, abilities and talent are manifested in the ease of understanding the essence of the subject, in a special way of looking at the world. Social programs. Or rather, one program for everyone. Kindergarten → school → university (profession) → work → marriage → children → pension (after that, society doesn’t need you). Everything should be according to plan: understandable, predictable, definable, calculated.. .At each age it is necessary to tick all social points.☺☺☺At 20 - get married (I can’t want to). At 22 - children (because it is necessary to have someone in old age to take care that no one points a finger.. .At 25 - divorced because “men are assholes”. At 27 - an unhappy single woman with children in her arms...☺☺☺Joke And if something goes wrong, then something is wrong with you. But. the most complex programs are psychological. They break the biological ones. They separate us from the genetic ones. They are a layer of fear between mediocrity and genius. Why? We are a product of upbringing, environment, stereotypes and rules alien to us, fears and desires. , but something happened spontaneously, happened by accident, traumatized us, stuck with us for many years. In the first two programs, each of us is automated. That is, to some extent we are robots, a biological machine with a given program. We, to some extent, do not belong to ourselves. But the third one has the ability to change and depends only on us. The question is how much of a person is a robot, and how much of a person. I think that such a question can only be answered by a person himself, everyone separately. Like you, I am a slave to my instincts, as well as habits and unconscious psychological automatisms, and I am doomed to be as I am. But I am able to comprehend, realize my habits. To give up something, to neutralize something, to change something. And if she is able to realize and understand, then she is able to put them into pieces. For example, general biological, temperamental characteristics, inclinations and interests, passions, dreams and dreams, habits thinking, fears and rules of behavior, features of the upbringing environment, restrictions and negative programs, etc. All this helps me understand who I am and what I am. So I have a question for you, my reader: - What have you done for your life? to make her better?