This is unpleasant for most men because it causes an extremely complex condition, which consists of: - partial age regression to the age at which the man was injured, i.e., in other words, the man, while talking with you about his childhood traumas, partially turns into a small and weak boy, and this in itself is unpleasant; - traumatic emotions, i.e. the emotions that the man had at the time of the injury and after it; - an unpleasant feeling of helplessness, which naturally arises due to the fact that a man is trying to control his condition, and this is basically impossible, since the reason is partly on an unconscious level; - a feeling of loss of manhood due to the fact that he wants to cry, complain, etc., which is especially acutely experienced next to your woman (wife); - natural rejection from the one who initiated the conversation about childhood traumas, i.e. in this case, from you, his woman (wife); - an acute desire to quickly stop talking about this topic or even communication in general. Women need to take into account that only for them, women, a conversation on the topic of childhood traumas often helps to get relief: I spoke out, I cried, got angry and let go. This most often does not work for men, especially if this conversation takes place with his woman, especially his wife. The feeling of loss of self-worth can be so strong that instead of relief, new trauma appears. There are two more reasons that need to be taken into account: 1. This should only be done by a specialist. “Wild psychoanalysis” only brings harm. 2. This is done only with the consent of the person himself. It is strictly prohibited to provide assistance. 3. This cannot happen between close people, i.e. There must be a psychological distance that cannot exist between close people in silence. And even if both are highly qualified psychologists and psychotherapists, nothing good will come of this. I hope that at least some women and wives will hear me. And henceforth she will not spoil her relationship with her man by playing psychologically at being a psychologist (psychotherapist)).