I’m definitely not one of those magical parents whose child puts the pillow in a triangle when making the bed, and leaves the kindergarten at the first request. I’m more accustomed to a relationship with my daughter like a confrontation between wrestlers, but without assault. Although sometimes you really want to use a technique in response: a diving elbow drop! Books on child psychology didn't really help me. In some, the child must be allowed everything, in others it is recommended to leave crying babies alone and accustom them to the harsh reality. It’s amazing how in just 100 years we have replaced the rod with the deprivation of gadgets, but have never come to a unified approach to education. In a word, I doomedly came to terms with the fact that “after 3 it’s too late,” I exhaled and began to save money child to a psychologist. Speaking of psychologists. One day I came to pick up my daughter from kindergarten. Usually Sonya needed to show everyone how cool her dad was. She stood on ears, hung on me like a wild macaque and completely forgot how to dress. Loud snoring and lightning from the eyes did not help. As a result, we went home only when all the spectators had left. And so, one day after a session with a psychologist, I came to pick up my angry Goon. I feel like I’m boiling inside, starting to get irritated, angry and continue to keep it in myself. The words of a psychologist flashed through my head, like parting words from a Jedi: “Talk about your feelings, Lenya...” Deciding to verbalize my lightning and snoring, I said: Sonya, to me It's unpleasant the way you're behaving now. I'm starting to get angry and generally tired and hungry. Sonya looked at me carefully and, realizing that I was not joking, began to get ready much more calmly. Imagine my amazement - was it possible? It turns out that she is not a telepath and she considered my flaring nostrils with the lid of a boiling “teapot” vibrating on her head to be part of the game. I will deceive you if I say that from that day everything changed and everything began to change in our lives silvople and pardonte. But our communication with our daughter has really become better and clearer for both of us..