To discover a new, more perfect future, you need to go back to the past, accept its imperfections and start creating in the present. Since ancient times, there has been an image of the “Tree of Life”, which embodied the universal structure of the world. The tree is symbolic with the image of the cross, and also has a vertical and horizontal position. The tree, or the cross, personifies the 4th elements, or the 4th cardinal directions, which are interconnected by a single stream of life, when united, they give birth to the 5th element. Humanity in the image tree included the concept of time, and as a synthesis: roots - past, trunk - present, crown - future. I will also draw such analogies as: Anatomical: head - torso - legs. Genealogical: ancestors - modern generation - descendants. Spatial: underground world - earthly world - overworld. So, revealing the meaning of development universals through the objectivity of world-building forms, a model was created that diagnoses the Family Tree. Using this model, you can determine the current state of a person and predict the probable future. The vertical is the father-mother, the value hierarchy. Accordingly, relationships with parents will also express the attitude towards the authorities, predetermine the nature of the development of relationships in the future family. The father directs in a professional sense, and the mother instructs in family relationships and directly or indirectly influences the choice of husband and wife. In many traditions, parents give blessings on creating a new family. Each country has its own ritual for blessing the future family. But the meaning remains the same: when a new family is formed (the present), then the parents (the past) bless the spouses for a common path and then the “birth portal” to the future (children) opens. The father personifies the goal, responsibility, discipline, ability to make a choice, and the mother cultivates those values ​​that will help in relationships. The absence of one or both parents will affect the lack of experience, which in turn can manifest itself in a person's dependence on the environment. And the further choice of life priorities will depend on who was around before the child came of age. Therefore, when diagnosing, it is very important to understand the genetic and social influence, which in one way or another leaves its mark on the development of personality. The family tree also has deeper connections, such as: grandfather - grandmother (great-grandfather, great-grandmother, etc.). This, accordingly, is a deep (more on a subconscious level) manifestation. Grandfather is future achievements, development strategy, and grandmother is respect for traditions, wisdom in relationships. Horizontal is brother-sister, like the ability to interact with the outside world. The kind of relationship a person has with his brother and sister during his life will show how harmonious he is in his relationships with others. For example, if a brother was suppressive in the family, then in future partnerships there is a possibility of inconsistency and dissatisfaction. If the relationship with your sister was disharmonious, then later in life this can repeat itself in a situation of constant search for deeper and more trusting relationships. If there was no brother or sister, then this will affect sensitivity in relationships with others. In other words, any relationship in childhood lays down the scenario for life situations in adulthood. The lack of experience in multifaceted childhood relationships can affect the multiple number of connections in the future, with the help of which a person will compensate for the missing communication with a brother or sister. Naturally, whatever goal you put into a real relationship, this is the experience you get. But is there an ideal scenario for childhood relationships? which will lead to beautiful and deep relationships? No... there is no limit to perfection: and only awareness of the missing links in the development of the past will give quality to the future.