Everywhere we hear about how a woman needs to love and accept herself and then everything will work out for her, a relationship with her man will appear dreams and life in general will sparkle with new colors. Yes, loving and accepting yourself is, of course, very important. But you probably also noticed how sometimes a woman in a relationship with one man withered right before our eyes, and with another, on the contrary, suddenly began to blossom and directly radiate happiness and warmth? And why? Yes, because a woman blooms and smells not only when she loves herself, but also when her man treats her just as well. After all, a lot depends on him here too. Personally, I am of the opinion that a woman, like a flower, begins to bloom and smell most often precisely when she has a wonderful, very gentle, caring and simply loving “gardener” who really knows how to do it to care for such a beautiful flower as his beloved woman. You can argue with me that a woman should not shift all responsibility for her own happiness only to her man and make him the main one in this, and you will be right. It's better not to do that. But just as a woman in a relationship creates comfort and coziness for her man so that he wants to return to her again and again and every day choose her only one among all other possible options, so a man creates an appropriate environment for a woman. And if this environment is favorable influence her - then she will radiate happiness and love, and the man himself will also feel even better from this. This is an interconnected process and it simply cannot be any other way. Therefore, I am firmly convinced that the way a woman looks and feels around a man is primarily his merit. Therefore, dear men, you should not look at other women, thinking - “Why are they so happy and luxurious, and mine is not like that at all?” But it’s all because they have a good and caring “gardener”, don’t even doubt this. Therefore, it’s better to ask yourself, “when was the last time I myself gave a compliment or gave flowers or generally did at least something nice for my woman? Is there something that would make her immediately feel really loved and really needed by me?” But she does something for you every day - makes the house cozy, cooks delicious food and generally tries to keep up with everything. She may not always succeed, but believe me, she tries very hard. So maybe you should come up right now, hug her and say “thank you”? Believe me, the more often you do this, the more your beloved woman will blossom next to you and over time you yourself will not recognize her and will fall in love with her again even more . And then all the other men will see you and your woman off with an envious look. And you will simply be happy together. Just remember that a lot here also depends on you and your efforts too. Good luck to you! If the article was useful and interesting for you, do not forget to click “thank you” and also subscribe so as not to miss my new articles) Sincerely, Your psychologist, Victoria Kirsta