From the author: our other useful materials and articles on www.treningi.meThink about the good! (and you will be able to fulfill....) A well-known parable about the fulfillment of desires: one man traveled and unexpectedly went to heaven. He was tired and went to sleep under the wish-fulfillment tree. When he woke up, he felt very hungry and thought: “I feel hungry.” I'd like to get some food from somewhere. And immediately food appears out of nowhere - it just floated through the air, very tasty food. He was so hungry that he didn't think about where it came from - when you're hungry, you don't think twice. He immediately began to eat, and the food was so tasty... Then, when his hunger passed, he looked around. Now he felt satisfied. He had another thought: - If only I could drink something... There are no prohibitions in paradise, wonderful wine immediately appeared. Lying in the shade of a tree and calmly drinking wine, blown by the cool breeze of heaven, he began to wonder: - What is going on? What's happening? Maybe I'm dreaming? Or are there some ghosts here playing tricks on me? And ghosts appeared. They were terrible, cruel and disgusting - exactly as he imagined them. He trembled and thought: “Now they will definitely kill me.” And they killed him. And now - a couple of my insights. We already live in Paradise, take a closer look and you will see how abundant the world is, the nature around and how many miracles are happening! Start by simply noticing a few small joys: your child’s laughter, your mother’s smile, beautiful autumn leaves under your feet, a door open in front of you, a delicious chocolate bar... We come to Earth not at all to suffer, but to to gain experience. And how will we receive it: through joy or suffering - this is our choice! And if you are determined to suffer and suffer, to overcome adversity, this is what happens! Why does a desire need to be “let go” in many practices of wish fulfillment? Yes, first of all, because without letting go, we often begin to fill it with negative energy: “it probably won’t work out.” ... “how to live if it doesn’t work out?...” “no, after all, I’ll never buy my own house...”, “these psychological techniques don’t help me, probably nothing will help”, “I want- I want-want-to-get-married, no, I’ll probably end up alone!” And you really still don’t understand after this why your wishes are not fulfilled? After such a powerful pumping with negativity and the energy of non-fulfillment?!! And what to do? - You ask, how to forget and let go? You know, I am against forgetting and letting go, I am “FOR” filling my desire and pumping it with powerful positive energy! The desire came to mind: “I want my own home” - and immediately think “Wow, how cool live in your own house!!” “I want to get married!” - I will soon be married, babysit a baby” and feel the injection of positive energy that will occur in your desire. Let's fill our desires with the energy of joy and confidence that everything will be fine, and maybe even better! :)And we help you meet the meanings of your desires here: http://www.treningi.me/wishes_born.html (in Moscow) Free lesson “The Birth of Desires” Online. http://www.treningi.me/wishesvebinar.htmlAnd perform them here: http://www.treningi.me/chudesa.html With love, your Olesya Dobrovolskaya.© 2010-2012 Center for Positive Psychology "SO!" Olesya Dobrovolskaya. All rights reserved. Full or partial publication of materials is possible only with reference to the authorship and the original source www.treningi.me.