I continue to introduce you to the types of OCD. This article was caused by one topic on the forum. Here are some quotes from this topic: among other things, I am very worried about some obsessive sexual fantasies on certain forbidden topics. And I don’t like it and I understand that this is unacceptable, but I can’t do anything about these fantasies. And about forbidden fantasies. I myself don’t know why and where it came from, but for some reason I’m not attracted to adult women at all, and I have fantasies about teenage girls. And I understand perfectly well that it’s terrible to dream about such things, but I can’t help myself and I don’t know how to get rid of such fantasies. I like to look and admire photos of different young models, and when I look at them, these different fantasies are somehow involuntarily born. And in reality, I will definitely never implement them in my life. But I don’t understand why they are in my head. Tell me how to get rid of such fantasies and help me understand where they come from in my head. Today we will talk about obsessions of a sexual nature. The very content of these obsessions is often punishable by law. However, I want to draw your attention to the fact that these are obsessions, i.e. obsessive thoughts rather than actual sexual actions. Most sexual obsessions are based on the fear of losing control over one’s behavior and then committing inappropriate actions. The most common are thoughts about unacceptable sex. For example, sex with strangers, which is indecent. Sexual acts with friends or loved ones, but thoughts about perverted sexual intercourse. Quite frequent fantasies about sexual violence, causing pain, punishing a partner. Such obsessive obsessions cause feelings of guilt, as opposed to impulses and urges. What is the difference between a person suffering from obsessions and a real rapist? The point is that in the first case a person understands that these are obsessive thoughts that he wants to get rid of. A real rapist does not feel guilt, but feels pleasure. Incest is considered one of the most condemned sexual activities. It is a very ancient taboo in most cultures. However, in some countries it is completely acceptable and not punishable. In many countries it is punished and prosecuted. Images of incest evoke shame and guilt. Everyone knows the tragic story of King Oedipus. He killed his father, although he did not know that it was his father, and then married his mother. Realizing the severity of the sin, Oedipus blinds himself. Perhaps the most painful for a person and the most condemned in society are obsessions of pedophilic content. It is important to dwell on the distinction between pedophilic disorder, pedophilic sexual desire and pedophilic obsessive thoughts. Pedophilic disorder is the most condemned seduction of children and performing sexual acts with them. Such behavior is criminally punishable. Pedophilic sexual attraction is a sexual attraction to children that does not come to fruition in specific actions. A person is aware of his unhealthy attraction, but does not experience any feelings of guilt, shame, or anxiety about this, and he can control his actions. Pedophilic obsessive thoughts are distinguished by the fact that they are not desires, impulses or interest, but are only obsessive thoughts. People who suffer from such thoughts of being afraid of being attracted to children and committing sexual acts towards them also experience disgust at the idea of ​​sexual contact with children. They also experience guilt and shame. Thus, it is important to distinguish OCD issues from other manifestations. Obsessive thoughts on sexual topics are a very real request for work with a psychologist. If you found the article interesting, then the author will be pleased for your thanks. This will inspire you to write new interesting articles! Sign up for a consultation: phone, WhatsApp +7-905-793-2237 skype: sovlad2 Oleg Vladimirovich Surkov I work with the Soul!