From the author: The title of this note is a parody of the article “Civil marriage is doomed.” I saw this link on the Internet page. The title of the article made me ask “why is this?” The title of this note is a parody of the article “Civil marriage is doomed.” I saw this link on an Internet page. The title of the article made me ask “why is this?” The irony of the situation was that on that day I was conducting an educational program on the topic of “family relationships” in the Canadian city of Edmonton. I am interested in the opinion of anyone who considers himself an expert in the field of family relationships, and I went to the link and read the article. The author of the article, a woman psychologist, believes that when a man lives with a woman in a civil marriage, he has a minimum of responsibility towards the woman, which is why such families fall apart. The author is clearly offended by men and with her title “psychologist” she clearly covers up her own incompetence in the issue she is discussing. I have no idea to shield men. In matters of family, both make many mistakes equally, but women are much more interested in knowledge in this area. So what is the inconsistency (in my opinion) of the above article? The fact is that it is not registration that holds loving hearts together, but something else. Statistics confirm that a wedding played according to all the rules: broken glasses, put on rings, solemn wishes of registry office workers and relatives, kisses to the applause of guests and shouts of “Bitter”, are not at all a guarantee of happy harmonious relationships. Families are either destroyed or relationships are destroyed they are far from ideal. Why? And I say “Denseness.” The denseness in the “family” area of ​​newlyweds and their parents. And also some psychologists, authors of stupid articles. They are stupid because they do not help those who want to understand the causes of family problems, but lead them away from the truth. So what is the truth? The truth is that relationships in a couple (like all things in nature), if they do not develop, then for some time they are held on to the resource that has arisen (due to feelings) and are destroyed when the resource is depleted. Relationships are brought together by many factors. And important knowledge: - why people unite in a union, - why it is necessary to “have” children, - the characteristics of male nature, - the characteristics of female nature, - what it is to love, - what love is, - correctly ranked life values. These knowledge (for good reason) should be passed on from father to son, from mother to daughter, but... without comment. As you can see, in this shortened version of the list there is not even a hint of registering a relationship. Registration is not bad at all. It's bad to be dense. Because it is denseness that causes pain in a relationship between two people. It is this pain, and not the absence of a stamp, that leads to a breakdown in relationships. And the darkness is doomed because the world, at present, is rapidly divided into those who invest time and money in their education (studying the laws of life) and those who look for those to blame for their suffering (including the lack of marriage registration). Self-education in various areas of life leads to the discovery of one’s abilities and management of one’s life. The search for those to blame leads to a dead end. Movement towards the above knowledge allows you to find happiness in your personal life. Good luck to you in strengthening family relationships.