From the author: The process of forgiveness is one of the effective ways to restore relationships, to find an internal source of love, joy and happiness. “Once souls gathered for a meeting before incarnation on Earth. And so God asks one of them: - Why are you coming to Earth? - I want to learn to forgive. -Who are you going to forgive? Look how pure, bright and loving the souls are. They love you so much that they can’t do anything for which they need to be forgiven. Soul looked at her sisters, indeed, she loves them unconditionally and they love her just the same! The Soul became sad and said: “And I really want to learn to forgive!” Then another Soul comes up to her and says: “Don’t worry, I love you so much that I’m ready to be with you on Earth and help you experience forgiveness.” I will become your husband and will cheat on you, drink, and you will learn to forgive me. Another Soul comes up and says: - I love you very much too and will go with you: I will be your mother, punish you, interfere in your life in every possible way and prevent you from living happily, and you will learn to forgive me. The Third Soul says: - And I will be your best friend and at the most inopportune moment I will betray you, and you will learn to forgive. Another Soul comes up and says: - And I will become your boss, and out of love for you I will treat you harshly and unfairly so that you can experience forgiveness. Another Soul volunteered to be an evil and unfair mother-in-law... Thus, a group of souls who loved each other gathered, came up with a scenario for their life on Earth to live the experience of forgiveness, and incarnated. But it turned out that on Earth it is very difficult to remember yourself and your agreement. Most took this life seriously, began to be offended and angry at each other, forgetting that they themselves created this life scenario, and most importantly, that everyone loves each other!” The sages say that love is the discovery of oneself in other people and delight recognition. But we live in a difficult world and time after time we feel not only the good, but also the bad. And we often blame others for our misfortunes. Forgiveness allows us to release joy and become happier than we are now. It's unusual, but it's true. The French say: “If a woman is wrong, you need to ask her for forgiveness,” - a brilliant phrase from the heroine of the film “Singles are provided with a hostel.” It is forgiveness that saves us from unnecessary negative experiences of anger, resentment, anxiety, irritation, and envy. Forgiveness is a step, it is a departure from one’s own rightness, from world and human justice and an exit into the world of feelings. And let them not understand you, you are not speaking in order to be understood. Forgiveness allows you to restore the bridge between people at the level of the heart, to maintain mutual respect and love. You simply ask for forgiveness for the fact that you do not have the life that your parent, boss, spouse, child, Lord God wants to see, that you make a different choice that did not live up to trust, expectations, and dreams. You simply ask for forgiveness for feeling irritated when someone interferes in your life with advice, recommendations, instructions, actions. And you know that he does this because he loves you very much. And you also love him very much, so ask for forgiveness. It’s simple and difficult at the same time, because you have to leave behind pride and righteousness, you have to muster up the courage to open up. The results are different. After all, everyone has their own time to ask for forgiveness and forgive.