Unfortunately, modern psychology is either still very young or very frivolous), but it does not have the same answers to questions. For example, the question - how warm the relationship should be between your new man and your children will not have a clear answer. Some psychologists believe that this is your relationship (the relationship between a man and a woman), and the children have their own father, and it is enough that the children and the man just somehow tolerate each other, and you don’t have to expect anything more. There are many psychologists, we are all different) as they say, you can always choose a specialist to suit every taste. As for me, I am convinced that already at the beginning of a relationship you can see how your new acquaintance will treat your children. I recommend not starting to build a relationship with a man who, from the threshold of the relationship, will tell you that he is not interested in your children, “I hope they are old enough, I hope they have their own father,” or something like that. A position that I indicated more masculine than feminine. Weak (sometimes in quotes) and emotional (most often, without any quotes) women fall in love and make plans much faster, stronger and more fatal. In the head of the beautiful half of humanity, everything is somehow mixed up and chaotic) (don’t take it as sexism, we are different, and that’s wonderful). Passions attract, we’ll deal with relationships with children later. In this passion, in this thirst for a man’s shoulder and fantasies, there is both a woman’s weakness and her strength. But then there are quite a lot of experiences - I am torn between a man and children. It shouldn’t be like this. If a man needs you and loves you, he will find it possible to build relationships with your children (even with the most difficult teenagers, sometimes much better than you)). If that's not the case. If a man makes you torn between... Run! Why did I say above that this is a man’s position? Because a man will not drag you to meet his children if he is not 100 percent sure that he wants to see you as his future wife. If he suggested taking a walk with his children, you can calmly start looking for a wedding dress) Learn this approach. Let a man into your life only if he agrees (if you see that he is ready) to become a part of life and your children. If from the very beginning of the relationship a man is not interested in your family, then why do you think that sleeping with you , he will begin to experience warm feelings and interest in her (your family)? About when it makes sense to introduce a man to children, a little later (in the photo - me with dad) He won me))