A relationship can have some prospect for the future only if the man was really sincerely interested in you from the very beginning . If this did not happen right away, then it is unlikely to appear over time. But a woman has a high probability of “sticking” to a man, that is, trying by all means to make him fall in love with her, thereby further suppressing and extinguishing his already rather weak interest in herself. Therefore, you should choose with whom to enter into a relationship only from those men who are really interested in you and who, most importantly, are not afraid to demonstrate this interest to you and prove it with their actions and actions. Otherwise, such a relationship is doomed to failure from the very beginning and your heart is broken. Yes, a man can take advantage of your feelings for him. He, for example, can hype you up for sex, but in this case, you still shouldn’t count on a really serious relationship. After all, a man almost immediately, having gotten to know a woman better and having talked a little with her, can understand and determine for himself exactly what he wants from her. And he may want either easy, meaningless sex without any responsibilities, or still a real relationship with already defined responsibilities and conditions, or even a family in the future. Yes, you won’t believe it, but many men really do already from 2-3 dates with a woman they can say whether they see her as their wife and the mother of his future children or not. And you know, for this you don’t need to somehow try to hit him and almost “jump out of your pants,” since for men this all happens naturally and easily. He simply makes a decision for himself and that’s all. Therefore, it is important to remember that if a man is not already on fire right away, then over time he will only fade even more in relation to you. But you, on the contrary, can become attached to him, because you will constantly think about him and how you can impress him and make him fall in love with you. Remember that this is a rather dangerous activity. This threatens you with the development of emotional dependence on a man, and as we all know, this rarely ends well and leads you to a happy “happy ending” in a relationship. Remember that women fall in love over time and often under the influence of their own illusions and fantasies. But men either like it right away or not. And then either the interest increases if the woman behaves with dignity or passes, if it was only physical attraction, and the woman turned out to be serious. But this is for the better. So be and feel worthy of all the best and also choose among equally worthy men. If the article was useful and interesting for you, do not forget to click “thank you” and also subscribe so as not to miss my new articles) Sincerely, Yours psychologist, Victoria Kirsta