From the author: psychotherapist, sexologist, TV program expert, member of the professional psychotherapeutic league, NLP master, educational psychologist, existential neuroprogramming specialist, specialist in personal well-being and family relationships, trainer, coach. I want you talk about how interesting the interweaving of beliefs that my clients live by are. In this regard, as an example, I would like to cite the following situation. I worked as a psychotherapist with my client from Voronezh. She periodically had financial difficulties. Sometimes in her life there were situations when she received a large amount of money in the form of bonuses, but the money somehow ran out too quickly. While working with her money problems, we “caught” one interesting belief regarding money: “Money is given to cure illnesses.” , there’s nothing else for it.” Which led to the client’s conclusion: “If there is no money, then I won’t get sick.” Taking into account that all our negative states live inside us, this strange belief was presented in the form of a stale skewer with meat that was fried over a fire, and worked in her like a kind of burning. Based on the principle of substitution, we were able to change the client’s negative state to a positive one, which was presented as a basis and support, and said that: “I am very strong in terms of health.” Then came the conclusion of the client herself, which surprised her: “I was afraid for my health and connected these 2 concepts, and money turned out to be extreme.” But that was not all. The next was her state, which she defined for herself as the “Stop” state. This meant that money was hindering development. “I want to move on and develop,” she said. The client seemed to be divided into 2 parts: one part of her wanted to have money, and the second prevented this. In this case, I, as a psychotherapist, worked on the technique of merging two contradictory parts so that the person became more holistic. After such work, she felt and defined for herself a new state that was not typical for her before. It turns out that money does not hinder development, it actually promotes development. With their help, you can afford more and discover other aspects of life. The next problematic point was that the client underestimated herself. The following rule works here, which I once heard from Professor S.V. Kovalev, and which is confirmed by numerous examples from my psychotherapeutic practice: “If a person evaluates himself low (in terms of receiving money), then others do too.” Such people are often underpaid, their salaries are not raised for a long time, etc., because their problematic self-esteem is read on an unconscious level by their superiors. And this can continue for a long time. The parents’ conviction was already at work here, which took deep roots, and said that…. (I would like to take a short break here). Without reading further, close your eyes for a moment and try to remember, having assessed your personal situation, what your parents most often told you about money. This refers to parental beliefs that we have often absorbed since those distant childhood years, and maybe even during our unconsciousness, and we just can’t get rid of them. This is why you need the help of a psychotherapist. Well, I think that you have come to the parental conviction, remember? Now check how this is embodied in your life... Now let’s return to my client, her conviction sounded like this: “we are all ordinary people, don’t get ahead, don’t stick your head out,” and further: “you can’t jump higher than the ceiling.” By removing this belief , replacing it with something more environmentally friendly and suitable for the client, the problem was almost solved. All that remains is to work on increasing self-esteem in general. Thus, you can get rid of all negative beliefs and programs, as well as stereotypes and fears associated with money and achieving goals . Open your new financial opportunities, and already start moving in the right direction, in order to.