We all understand that aggression breeds aggression. Therefore, adults must help the child find constructive ways of interaction, ways of expressing aggression in various situations. If a child cannot stand up for himself or respond to insults from peers, it is necessary first of all: First, to understand whether you are exaggerating "? Have you really offended your beloved child or is it your resentment from childhood that you transfer to your child? Secondly, convince your child that good always triumphs over evil. If you tell your child that life is cruel, he may begin to experience fear, anxiety and withdraw into himself, or become aggressive. Third, do not focus on the fact that he cannot fight back the offender. Children begin to hold back their experiences, becoming even more depressed. And in this case, you need to support the child, tell him that he is strong and brave, and that you believe in him! Fourth, pay attention, maybe it is your child who provokes conflicts, gets bullied and thus tries to attract attention from peers or adults. How can you help a child in such situations? First of all, teach the child socially acceptable methods of protection. For example: raise your voice, change your tone, say in a confident voice that you are not affected by offensive words. Then, it is very important to teach the child to react to negative emotions in order to have a harmonious emotional state. You can rehearse techniques on a pillow (to release tension), shout into a “glass” or act out a skit. Well, the most important thing is to raise the child’s self-esteem! To do this, praise more often (or talk about your child’s strengths to your friends, but so that he can hear - this is a very effective way). You can join any sports section, and it doesn’t have to be wrestling. This will not only increase the child’s immunity and resistance to stress, but will also help the body, emotions, and even cognitive abilities to develop harmoniously. If, for health reasons or other reasons, sports are not possible, then get creative. Children become successful when they evaluate themselves positively..