Throughout our lives, we always choose something, and one of the most difficult life-changing choices is the choice of life partners (spouse, best friends). We all want to be confident in the correctness of our decisions, and no matter what words and oaths are pronounced, the human world is sometimes fraught with surprises. They help us understand who we live with and what is valuable to us, sometimes after many years. And if each of them has a certain immunity to some surprises, then others can be unbearable. Thanks to all my clients, I have identified some important features in the behavior of future life partners that can be noticed at the very beginning of communication. I suggest observing your loved ones and your feelings in order to decide on your choice and present you with several experiments that will reveal the habits and personality of your loved ones. 1- A cry for help. Ask for help and your loved one’s reaction will speak better than any words. It’s not for nothing that women love the candy-bouquet period, because they gain confidence that the man will take care of her and their future children. However, such a forecast may become erroneous, since in a state of love we all try our best to please each other and have more strength and energy (and love lasts for 2 years, then perhaps it develops into love). 2- The Gods test our best feelings with insult and insult. The only danger is that your reputation may be distorted. If you save your time and nerves.3- Should you expect betrayal? Bring your loved one into the company of friends of the same sex and watch whether your companion is distracted by their charms. Whether you should be afraid of a negative outcome will determine the likelihood of suffering in the future.4- By his friends. Will your companion disappear in their company, forgetting about you? Where you came together, it’s better to return from there together. If you were brought to your friends, your companion is responsible for your comfort in this society. 4- Children. Bring your loved one to a house where there are children and leave them with them for a short time. If he keeps them busy with something and does whatever his heart desires, he can become a good father (or mother). When the children are with him and listening to him - Oh! your subconscious, it is wiser than your consciousness and notices many more details than you can remember. If you doubt it, stop, take a break, or don’t do it. Time will sort everything out. While watching, remember - you are being watched too. Speak! All those surprises that reality can bring us can separate you from your destiny. No matter how difficult it may be for you, everything is better than apart. When “surprises” quarrel you, there is always something that will unite you - this is communication, conversation, common interests, values, common troubles and joys, and your ability to explain to your loved ones what you expect from them, the ability to agree on everything. Look for helpers a competent psychologist can help you understand a difficult situation. Our calling is to help you stay healthy and become happier. I thank my teachers who helped me make my choices and my clients who, with their questions and doubts, helped me realize how important this is for happiness.