Addition to the article Pets. To be or not to be? Pets can play different roles in family conflicts. Relationships with animals can have both positive and negative effects on family dynamics. Here are some ways pets can help resolve or worsen family conflicts: Pets can reduce tension and conflict in the family. They can promote relaxation and a positive atmosphere, helping families cope with stress and resolve disagreements. For example, a purring cat that sleeps nearby and brings an element of coziness and comfort acts as an “anti-stress.” Caring for an animal can help develop a sense of empathy among family members. For example, family members walk the dog together or take their pet to the doctor together, another joint activity appears that can positively influence the relationship in the family. Having pets can also be a source of disagreement in the family, especially related to pet care. Having to share responsibilities for caring for animals and making decisions regarding their care can cause conflict. For example, who will clean up after an animal until it is toilet trained? It is advisable to discuss all these issues, or better yet, write them down before purchasing the animal. Each family member may have their own preferences and attitude towards a pet. Differences in approach to caring for or interacting with an animal can cause tension and lead to conflicts between family members. For example, the wife allows the dog to sleep on the bed, but the husband does not. Conflicts over material issues. Keeping an animal requires financial investments (feed, vaccinations, etc.), it is advisable to discuss in advance who will participate in this aspect of the issue. In case of divorce, who will take the pet and who will support it? In general, the role of pets in family conflict depends on many factors, including the type of animal, the personalities of family members, their relationships, and the family environment. It is important to remember that any disagreements or conflicts can be resolved through open and honest dialogue between family members, and the animal can be part of this process and help strengthen the relationship. I have listed only a number of aspects that can both positively and negatively affect the family , I will be glad to see your comments and additions! You can sign up for a consultation on the website or through my telegram: https://t.me/bakulina_psychologist