I dedicate this article to the memory of my dad. ❤️Relationships with parents are always not an easy thing. And I'm certainly no exception. There was a lot of everything: sad, sick, heavy and light, but I want to remember only the pleasant, kind and warm. In my childhood there was a lot of dad’s participation, as they say, I’m daddy’s daughter. From childhood, he fussed with me, spoiled me a lot, took me to cafes and cinemas on weekends, and took me on trips. One day, dad took me to a real restaurant, the central and best one in our city. We had lunch there before going to the cinema. Mom didn’t really approve of dad; she thought he spoiled me too much. Dad conspiratorially asked not to tell mom about our trip to the restaurant. Of course, I agreed and, no matter what my mother probably guessed, upon returning home from injury she said: “Mom, I won’t tell you that dad and I were in a restaurant.” 🙈Being in constant therapy, many layers were removed related to childhood memories . There, as you know, is the beginning of all behavior patterns, traumatic events and creative adaptations. Now, the bottom line is that I have only love and endless gratitude for my parents. And if for my mother I still have the opportunity to show and give tender feelings, to care and protect, then my dad, unfortunately, is no longer there. I was haunted for a long time by grief and regret that my dad never lived to see his much-desired grandson. He would definitely be the best grandfather for my son, and Makarka would know what it’s like to have a real grandfather, not just nominally, but with all his heart and with great love. Quite recently, a realization came to me and literally dawned on me. For my dad, I was the only child in my life, since my grandson was born after his death. That is, I didn’t have to “share” love with anyone. I can’t say that this fact can make me happy, but my heart was filled even more with love and gratitude to my dad. And heavy feelings of grief and sadness turned into light sadness.❣️In my sessions with clients, almost always, the key to solving current conflicts and problems is relationships with parents. Often, it is no longer possible to change interactions with parents in life, but there is always a choice to change your thoughts, feelings and reactions. I invite you to make your life clearer, easier and more joyful 🤗The cost of the session is not much now, but the benefits can become priceless. The first session is free ✨✔️I work in person and online Phone 8-902-513-42-43 Viber, WhatsApp, Telegram