“Give yourself time to put everything together” I read these words on a tarot card and thought about psychotherapy. Psychotherapy is also a process of gathering oneself. Day after day, session after session. You won’t be able to put yourself together in a rush or a leap. You cannot jump into integrity. Integrity is built, like a house, brick by brick, fastened with mortar and after some time we look - and the house is ready, now it needs to be inhabited. And this is also a process and this is also time. So in psychotherapy, first a person builds his inner building, holding together the bricks of his soul with tears, bursts of joy, and sometimes silence, sudden sadness and revelations, manifestations of anger and quiet joy, enveloping everything inside . This is how a house stands for its integrity. And then you need to settle into this house - learn to live in your integrity with new sensations of yourself, which at first seem unusual, and there are also different temperatures in these walls, but these walls of your inner space protect you, they are your foundation and you learn to live in them and take care of them. Lyubitskaya Oksana