Hey, good day!! Today I would like to highlight one of the most important topics of the female population and their wonderful halves. Or more precisely, what happens to a woman during pregnancy and maternity leave. Unfortunately, in our country, awareness among men and women is at a very low level. A woman, agreeing to an important step in her life, does not know what she will have to face while on maternity leave. Men in our society also do not understand their level of responsibility and the importance of timely assistance to their spouse, the necessary active participation in life, this is not a simple symbiosis between a woman and a child. In society, only joyful pictures often flash about wonderful motherhood, how beautifully fun and playful everything is. Increasingly, a huge number of women (girls) - mothers on maternity leave in a very sad state - come to see me. We are pleased that a woman must cope with everyday life, a child, and take care of her husband, and at the same time there must also be a cheerful, interesting, flirting woman with sparkling eyes for her husband. - Do you know what postpartum depression is? - How often do you turn to your loved ones for help and are they ready to help with the baby? Very often, a woman, having a very cool and diverse world before birth, with her interesting work, friends, travel and hobbies, finds herself simply on the shore of pleasure and plunges into the abyss of diapers, poop, illnesses, a state of complete physical and moral exhaustion, without the possibility of liberation in the near future can be partially compared to imprisonment. Unfortunately, women sitting at home with beautiful babies very often have to find themselves in financial insecurity in addition to everything described above. When a woman worked and earned money herself, she had a certain financial level, could buy something for herself and control the financial situation. Unfortunately, most men in our country find themselves on maternity leave and are unable to create the same conditions for themselves and their families. Which further increases tension at home between family members. There is postpartum depression, this is when at about 2.5-5 months of the baby, all the hormones that kept her psyche completely safe to keep the child in a stressful situation begin to leave the woman’s body. So they were like that, and at some point they begin to gradually leave, because of this there is a feeling of complete emotional failure. By this time, the woman begins to more specifically understand what happened to her life and whether her relatives and her husband will come to her aid or whether she is alone with these problems. During this period, girls and women need a lot of involvement from their man and loved ones. Mothers who have the opportunity to leave home without their child, at least 1-2 times a week for two to three hours, feel much better about themselves, which greatly influences the positive side of family comfort. Also, the opportunity to please yourself and get carried away with your own affairs without a child will clearly give strength and sparkle in a woman’s eyes. A man who helps at night and not only with the child creates a feeling of security and harmony in the microclimate of this family. Unfortunately, society often condemns women with the words: “You’re a woman, you can handle it, why are you whining?” - Oh okay, we had several and managed nothing. “It’s not a man’s business to help a woman with a child.” - Am I a mother? You know better, I take my salary home. If you are a man, be more involved in the family and in the problems that are happening in your home, help your wife and do not divide responsibilities into male and female, otherwise the child will grow up, but respect for you will completely disappear, which will greatly chill and spoil the relationship in the family and will ultimately lead to divorce. Women, ask for help more often; do not hesitate at some moments to defend your right to a normal life with your own space, friends and hobbies. And of course, a sharp change in your mood over 2.5-6 months is completely.